Things have not been very good between me and my man the last couple of months as we've been arguing at least once a week due to some issues between us. But we'd usually make up by the next day and things will be fine until something else comes up.
I don't know if that is the reason or he just naturally has a low sex drive, because he doesn't seem to be very interested in sex anymore. We both love each other dearly, and I know his low sex drive is not due to faded love for me, but somehow he just doesn't seem to be very interested in getting physical.
When we first started going out 7 months ago, he was very turned on and kept thinking of sex with me all the time. But now, it is the complete opposite after a few failed attempts at sex. He didn't know what caused the change either - he said that it could be due to our arguments.
Guys, if you keep arguing with your girl, will it make you lose your sex drive? He has never been with any girl before me.
I don't know if that is the reason or he just naturally has a low sex drive, because he doesn't seem to be very interested in sex anymore. We both love each other dearly, and I know his low sex drive is not due to faded love for me, but somehow he just doesn't seem to be very interested in getting physical.
When we first started going out 7 months ago, he was very turned on and kept thinking of sex with me all the time. But now, it is the complete opposite after a few failed attempts at sex. He didn't know what caused the change either - he said that it could be due to our arguments.
Guys, if you keep arguing with your girl, will it make you lose your sex drive? He has never been with any girl before me.
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sorry to hear of your problem rosebay,
if your man has low sex drive anyway, then having arguments is a good excuse to give, as to why he donsn`t want to have sexual intercourse with you.
but if he was turned on at one time, it seems strange he should lose his desire after 7 months.
when you say - a few failed attempts - , i presume you mean he couldn`t get or maintain an erection for long enough to penetrate you successfully.
it sounds like there could be an underlying cause, like stress in his life, or at work, causing his problem.
because he has failed, he probably doesn`t want to try anymore, for risk of failure.
it might help if you try an alternative to intercourse, which removes the pressure off him to perform.
a good way to do this , which will give you sexual satisfaction, is for him to suck your nipples and stroke your clitoris (or close by if its too sensitive to touch directly).
if he does this for up to 20 mins (or more if necessary)
you should reach your climax.
he will get the sexual pleasure of watching you as you build up and then orgasm, with the accompanying clenches of you vaginal muscles.
which is a turn on for most men, to watch as you go over the top.
he may then want to masturbate , if he is aroused , or if it hasnt turned him on due to lack of sex drive, you will have had a release of your sexual tension, and he is not under pressure to perform.
try it as a therapy and see what happens.
if he really gets into doing that to you, and you dont mind, he can even tease you by bringing you close to your point of orgasm, and then holding off for a few moments, by just sucking your nipples , but not stimulating your clitoris,.
this heightens your desire for your orgasm, and again, once he touches your clitoris when you are highly aroused, he will enjoy your relief as he finally allows you to climax and stops teasing you.
if your man has low sex drive anyway, then having arguments is a good excuse to give, as to why he donsn`t want to have sexual intercourse with you.
but if he was turned on at one time, it seems strange he should lose his desire after 7 months.
when you say - a few failed attempts - , i presume you mean he couldn`t get or maintain an erection for long enough to penetrate you successfully.
it sounds like there could be an underlying cause, like stress in his life, or at work, causing his problem.
because he has failed, he probably doesn`t want to try anymore, for risk of failure.
it might help if you try an alternative to intercourse, which removes the pressure off him to perform.
a good way to do this , which will give you sexual satisfaction, is for him to suck your nipples and stroke your clitoris (or close by if its too sensitive to touch directly).
if he does this for up to 20 mins (or more if necessary)
you should reach your climax.
he will get the sexual pleasure of watching you as you build up and then orgasm, with the accompanying clenches of you vaginal muscles.
which is a turn on for most men, to watch as you go over the top.
he may then want to masturbate , if he is aroused , or if it hasnt turned him on due to lack of sex drive, you will have had a release of your sexual tension, and he is not under pressure to perform.
try it as a therapy and see what happens.
if he really gets into doing that to you, and you dont mind, he can even tease you by bringing you close to your point of orgasm, and then holding off for a few moments, by just sucking your nipples , but not stimulating your clitoris,.
this heightens your desire for your orgasm, and again, once he touches your clitoris when you are highly aroused, he will enjoy your relief as he finally allows you to climax and stops teasing you.
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