Over the last year and a half I have had problems with frequent urination, sometimes 15 to 20 times per day. My primary doctor, and the urologist that he referred me to have had me tested, did not find anything wrong with me. I had two bladder ultrasounds, a digital prostate exam and a urine culture and none of these tests show a problem.
I've made the best of it for the last year and a half until this past April 6th, when an additional problem cropped up. It's normal for a man to feel the urge to urinate after a climax, but on April 6th, after masturbating, I wasn't able to completely void. I kept on feeling like I still had to go. It was a horrible feeling. Not only was I urinating frequently, now I was feeling constantly having the urge to go even after voiding. This happened right after I masturbated. I felt like this for about 10 days and then the feeling of always having the urge to void faded away, although I still was going to the restroom frequently. I had a follow up appointment with the urologist this last Friday, April 28th, and the doctor wanted me to take medication to see if this would alleviate the problem I had with the frequent urination. I told him I was more concerned about the fact that masturbating, or more specifically ejaculating and what had happened previously after I did it. He told me that it was impossible that ejaculating could be causing my problem and he told me not to worry about it. I had been feeling the urge, so when I came home from the doctor I masturbated again, and the exact same thing happened. Since then I have been feeling like I did on April 6th, the feeling of always needing to void, along with the frequent urination, but even when I do I still feel like I haven't gone. It's the most miserable feeling.
On top of this, while masturbating, I had the urge to void three times before climax and when I finally did climax it was nothing like would normally happen if a person had not masturbated for three weeks. Although I was fully erect, the ejactulation was weak, and very unfullfilling. It felt like 1/2 an orgasm. It didn't feel the way an orgasm is supposed to.
As upsetting as this is, what I'm most concerned about is that now I am back to where I was on April 6th, feeling like my bladder is full and I have to go to the restroom constantly and urinating frequently.
I have looked everywhere for information on what this could be but to no avail. None of my doctors believes that ejaculation is tied to the problem, but I know my body and I know what I'm feeling and experiencing. I am so miserable.
Do you have any ideas or suggestion on how I can remedy this?
Any help you could provide would be appreciated.
I've made the best of it for the last year and a half until this past April 6th, when an additional problem cropped up. It's normal for a man to feel the urge to urinate after a climax, but on April 6th, after masturbating, I wasn't able to completely void. I kept on feeling like I still had to go. It was a horrible feeling. Not only was I urinating frequently, now I was feeling constantly having the urge to go even after voiding. This happened right after I masturbated. I felt like this for about 10 days and then the feeling of always having the urge to void faded away, although I still was going to the restroom frequently. I had a follow up appointment with the urologist this last Friday, April 28th, and the doctor wanted me to take medication to see if this would alleviate the problem I had with the frequent urination. I told him I was more concerned about the fact that masturbating, or more specifically ejaculating and what had happened previously after I did it. He told me that it was impossible that ejaculating could be causing my problem and he told me not to worry about it. I had been feeling the urge, so when I came home from the doctor I masturbated again, and the exact same thing happened. Since then I have been feeling like I did on April 6th, the feeling of always needing to void, along with the frequent urination, but even when I do I still feel like I haven't gone. It's the most miserable feeling.
On top of this, while masturbating, I had the urge to void three times before climax and when I finally did climax it was nothing like would normally happen if a person had not masturbated for three weeks. Although I was fully erect, the ejactulation was weak, and very unfullfilling. It felt like 1/2 an orgasm. It didn't feel the way an orgasm is supposed to.
As upsetting as this is, what I'm most concerned about is that now I am back to where I was on April 6th, feeling like my bladder is full and I have to go to the restroom constantly and urinating frequently.
I have looked everywhere for information on what this could be but to no avail. None of my doctors believes that ejaculation is tied to the problem, but I know my body and I know what I'm feeling and experiencing. I am so miserable.
Do you have any ideas or suggestion on how I can remedy this?
Any help you could provide would be appreciated.
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well i don't know about you, but maybe telling you about me will help.
i recently learned how to ejaculate (i'm a girl and yes we can do it and it's fantastic) and i've had a urinary tract infection for about a month, which is about how long i've been ejaculating.
female ejaculate comes out of the urethra, but is an excretion from the female prostate, not the bladder, so female orgasms are/can be tied to our urinary tracts.
i researched why there is a correlation between me ejaculating and a UTI and apparently because of the stimulation of the urethra during sexual activity (which is normal, but occurs more frequently when one is squirting), bacteria has more of an opportunity to get into my urinary tract than usual. Perhaps you're jerking off in a different way than you usually do, a way where the head of your penis is coming into more contact with your hand or something else and it's pushing bacteria into your urethra, causing a bacterial infection
i have no idea, but maybe some of this information can help you. bladder discomfort sucks!
rock on
i recently learned how to ejaculate (i'm a girl and yes we can do it and it's fantastic) and i've had a urinary tract infection for about a month, which is about how long i've been ejaculating.
female ejaculate comes out of the urethra, but is an excretion from the female prostate, not the bladder, so female orgasms are/can be tied to our urinary tracts.
i researched why there is a correlation between me ejaculating and a UTI and apparently because of the stimulation of the urethra during sexual activity (which is normal, but occurs more frequently when one is squirting), bacteria has more of an opportunity to get into my urinary tract than usual. Perhaps you're jerking off in a different way than you usually do, a way where the head of your penis is coming into more contact with your hand or something else and it's pushing bacteria into your urethra, causing a bacterial infection
i have no idea, but maybe some of this information can help you. bladder discomfort sucks!
rock on
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sounds like you have a UTI, there are bacterial and viral, and hope you have a bacterial. i had a viral years ago, from stupid unprotected sex, and it lasted forever -- nothing would make it go away. lots of water, cranberry juice, and distracting myself.
for some reason, i just randomly got what feels like a UTI the other night, after a night of drinking 6-7 beers. i usually wouldn't think the two are connected, but i haven't had sex in a long time or jerked off, and i hadn't really drank for months. who knows, right? am going to the doc tomorrow, hoping it's something bacterial just so i can take a pill.
as for the jerking off thing. i find that sometimes i'll have the pee thing after i jerk off, and sometimes am up a couple hours past my bedtime drinking buckets of water just to clean out the system. it usually works but is a nightmare couple of hours. my theory is that i'm either too rough or more probable, don't 'warm up' enough, meaning i go from hard to ejaculating as quickly as possible. or if i haven't jerked off enough or in a long time, sometimes it happens. my theory is it has something to do with the urethra getting disturbed, which can happen for lots of reasons, and forcing semen through it . i always remember hearing about some gland (cowper's, maybe?) that sort of 'lubes up' the urethra before you ejactulate, and i'm thinking maybe that doesn't happen with the quickie.
just some thoughts. i'd go to a doc and start drinking lots of water and taking some prostate/bladder/urethra meds.
for some reason, i just randomly got what feels like a UTI the other night, after a night of drinking 6-7 beers. i usually wouldn't think the two are connected, but i haven't had sex in a long time or jerked off, and i hadn't really drank for months. who knows, right? am going to the doc tomorrow, hoping it's something bacterial just so i can take a pill.
as for the jerking off thing. i find that sometimes i'll have the pee thing after i jerk off, and sometimes am up a couple hours past my bedtime drinking buckets of water just to clean out the system. it usually works but is a nightmare couple of hours. my theory is that i'm either too rough or more probable, don't 'warm up' enough, meaning i go from hard to ejaculating as quickly as possible. or if i haven't jerked off enough or in a long time, sometimes it happens. my theory is it has something to do with the urethra getting disturbed, which can happen for lots of reasons, and forcing semen through it . i always remember hearing about some gland (cowper's, maybe?) that sort of 'lubes up' the urethra before you ejactulate, and i'm thinking maybe that doesn't happen with the quickie.
just some thoughts. i'd go to a doc and start drinking lots of water and taking some prostate/bladder/urethra meds.
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Well i think you might have a sympathetic/parasympathetic nerve problem.
You see when you excite your nerves as you would during ejaculation some times what happens is this elevation in nerve activity has a knock on affect to surrounding areas such as your bladder and urinary sphincter causing this retention.
I have this same problem however your appears to be more extreme. I would measure how frequently this happens to you and consult a good urologist with this information.
You may have to undergo nerve stimulation tests and bladder checks. Unfortunately these days people have too much confidence in medicine believing there is a cure for everything, how i believe you can be treated medically for you problem, i certainly wouldn't undergo any surgery unless you had no other option.
You see when you excite your nerves as you would during ejaculation some times what happens is this elevation in nerve activity has a knock on affect to surrounding areas such as your bladder and urinary sphincter causing this retention.
I have this same problem however your appears to be more extreme. I would measure how frequently this happens to you and consult a good urologist with this information.
You may have to undergo nerve stimulation tests and bladder checks. Unfortunately these days people have too much confidence in medicine believing there is a cure for everything, how i believe you can be treated medically for you problem, i certainly wouldn't undergo any surgery unless you had no other option.
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look i don't have much medical or antomical knowledge as our other friends have. but i would like to focus on ur
mental state i.e. if you are depressed or perhaps not happy with the things in your life. 'cause if our processor is having some trouble processing things,all sorts of physical problems begins. I am suffering from lot of problems and life seems like
curse but will post my problems later.
mental state i.e. if you are depressed or perhaps not happy with the things in your life. 'cause if our processor is having some trouble processing things,all sorts of physical problems begins. I am suffering from lot of problems and life seems like
curse but will post my problems later.
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It is possible that the bladder neck muscle is too tight. This can be congenital or the temporary result of irritation. This may explain the difficulty in voiding. It's a subtle thing and hard to diagnose, but it can be important as the wall muscles (detrusors) can become fatigued if they have to compensate for the tight sphincter. This can lead to an inactive bladder that will not empty. Pooling urine will then lead to Prostatitis. Prostate treatments like Tamsulosin might help allieviate your problems if the prostate is inflamed and the bladder neck is too tight. And a surgical solution can bring relief (a bladder neck incision) although it increases the likelihood of infertility because of "dry" ejaculation (or retrograde), which means the semen if unable to shoot out of the penis and instead goes into the bladder.
Any sexual activity is going to stimulate the area. I would give up caffiene immediately and spicy food. Drink water regularly, and flush through after ejaculation. Keep your bowels healthy too as constipation can affect the urinary tract. And practise good hygene.
I suggest you get a second or third opinion and advice. Untreated this could lead to serious bladder damage and a lifetime of self-catheterisation.
Any sexual activity is going to stimulate the area. I would give up caffiene immediately and spicy food. Drink water regularly, and flush through after ejaculation. Keep your bowels healthy too as constipation can affect the urinary tract. And practise good hygene.
I suggest you get a second or third opinion and advice. Untreated this could lead to serious bladder damage and a lifetime of self-catheterisation.
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I do agree with giacomodimaggio that functional bladder neck stenosis may be the cause of your symptoms. I had very similar symptoms since about 30 years of age, and urine dynamometry which measures flow and pressures while voiding confirmed the diagnosis. I had my surgery 2 weeks ago (age 38) and am still recovering, but my symptoms are so much better. Hope this helps.
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i hope this is helpful to someone... probably a long time since any of the posters above have looked but maybe it will help someone else.
i have recently started to ejaculate and i had the same issue. one bladder infection after another. i went the doctors and they tested me and told me i didn't have an infection...but these bladder infections kept on happening.
so i started to feel around. i noticed that just above my urethra it was all soft and puffy, so i gave the entrance to my urethra a little fiddle just for a second to open it up and then pushed on the soft lumpy bit above and ejaculate came out. and the pain from my "bladder infection" virtually disappeared.
i have a theory - sort of like cows, if they aren't milked, they end up in pain. after sex, even though i may have ejaculated heaps, ejaculate still keeps on building up. while i am full of ejaculate, it is painful to urinate. now i make a point of "emptying" myself daily and i don't get the "bladder infections" anymore. i think some women, like me, still keep producing ejaculate after sex, but without something to push it out it just sits there and builds up.
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Just a tip, I too have had the same problem and searched high and low for an answer and how to stop it... I can't tell you exactly what it is, but I can give you some hopful solutions. Before ejaculation try not to void for an hour before hand and if you do, just make sure to wait awhile before ejaculating. Also after ejaculation also try not void for another hour... Eventually you can decrease the time until you feel more comfortable... I hope this helps as I know how frastrating it can be aswell as scary not knowing exactly what it is.
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dont fear it will be alright i had a same problem take rest from sexual activities and dont be afraid or anxious,in my case also it was not found anything,i thing this problem is psychological or something like that but yes,my doctor advise me to take roliten 2 mg,a medicine and i felt awesome and my urinary problem is almost gone but i can understand,how it feels and remember internet is full of junk,u can learn about experiences of different people,but u should never follow their medication and remember doctor has more experience than anyone,so consider his advise and dont think about your urinary problem,live ur life with fun,work hard and contribute something to the world,u knoe u r having a small problem,think about those who have cancer or handicapped people,how do they live their life,they can also say i am miserable with my life,but they fight and live,and the best example is stephen hawking,read something about him and imagine that u r in place of him?
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<3<3<3<3don't worry my friend. i have same problem though not as sophisticated as yours. i noticed that i have to urinate after i ejaculate and it doesn't subsidize for 2 or 3days i even have fever. you should have sex but not frequently having too much sex and masturbation and not having sex cause both problems and lead to frequent urination. it could be hyperactive bladder and the way out from this problem is to become used to urine hold. you should hold urine if you can not for long time try not to urinate for 5 minutes after you have to urinate then your bladder should become used to holding urine and try to hold urine for longer time from time to time. i tried this method and noticed that things improved. let me know if i helped you somehow. good luck. i see your problem as i experienced this myself
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How do you stop ejaculating? It is wonderful...but it causes me UTI's everytime I have sex...and I am about over all that...is there a way to control it for females? I seem to have no control over it...
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I might can help u had the same thing had to have a very small part of prosate cut off
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