I absolutely hate it! I'm a girl who loves to have sex, and during foreplay -I love it when my male lover plays with my breasts, and does alot of touching and stimulating. It's what gets me into the mood (along with kissing).
I find that as soon as we have to stop, (especially to put on a condom), that I kind of lose a little of it, and then have to start working up to more stimulation when we start the actual act of sex.
I'm not saying I've never had an orgasm with him, because I have - he is patient, and lets me go first (which I don't require at all)... but half the time, if I move the wrong way... or he does... or we change positions - I find I lose it. It makes me feel kind of bad... like I'm letting HIM down; (he likes to hear the heavy breathing and the noise of the orgasm - just like I do) even though he IS doing as much as he can in that moment. I seem to have smaller buildups, and then it's just gone... so I'm wondering...
I find also, that when he is more agressive with me (which I have to remind him to be) that I tend to orgasm more often.
I guess what I'm asking is -
A. If I'm having (more often than not) smaller orgasms instead of one HUGE one...
B. If it could be nerves (we haven't had sex in a while...)
C. If there's something I could/should ask him to do for me, or let me do, that would help bring me more closely to orgasm...
Any help given would be greatly appreciated...
thanks!
I find that as soon as we have to stop, (especially to put on a condom), that I kind of lose a little of it, and then have to start working up to more stimulation when we start the actual act of sex.
I'm not saying I've never had an orgasm with him, because I have - he is patient, and lets me go first (which I don't require at all)... but half the time, if I move the wrong way... or he does... or we change positions - I find I lose it. It makes me feel kind of bad... like I'm letting HIM down; (he likes to hear the heavy breathing and the noise of the orgasm - just like I do) even though he IS doing as much as he can in that moment. I seem to have smaller buildups, and then it's just gone... so I'm wondering...
I find also, that when he is more agressive with me (which I have to remind him to be) that I tend to orgasm more often.
I guess what I'm asking is -
A. If I'm having (more often than not) smaller orgasms instead of one HUGE one...
B. If it could be nerves (we haven't had sex in a while...)
C. If there's something I could/should ask him to do for me, or let me do, that would help bring me more closely to orgasm...
Any help given would be greatly appreciated...
thanks!
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i understand your situation, and realise how frustrating this can be.
as you get aroused during fore play , wuth no problem, the secret may lie in nipple stimulation.
is it possibe for him to keep your nipples stimulated during sex, because that will help your cliroris to stay "wanting more" and will mean you will achieve your orgasm.
ideally your nipples need to be sucked quite firmly especially when they are very erect. this is often enough to send you over the top.
hopefully doing this before or during intercourse will help you to get the satisfaction you want, and of course your lover will enjoy the sensation as you rythmically clench your vaginal muscles at orgasm.
hope it works out for you.
as you get aroused during fore play , wuth no problem, the secret may lie in nipple stimulation.
is it possibe for him to keep your nipples stimulated during sex, because that will help your cliroris to stay "wanting more" and will mean you will achieve your orgasm.
ideally your nipples need to be sucked quite firmly especially when they are very erect. this is often enough to send you over the top.
hopefully doing this before or during intercourse will help you to get the satisfaction you want, and of course your lover will enjoy the sensation as you rythmically clench your vaginal muscles at orgasm.
hope it works out for you.
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