Hi,
So first of all i've never had sex before, my gf is going crazy now cuz she wants to have sex... We've tried 3 times but I couldn't get a boner. I think the problem is that i'm nervious cuz it's the first time though i don't feel real nervious, now after trying 3 times I do cuz I don't want to disappoint her yet again...
She's older than me and has already had sex but I don't think she has lots of experience... Cuz she doesn't really do anything to make me get hard. She doesn't want to give me a blowjob (I've had that before), her hands are only and my back (IF I put them there, otherwise on my face...) She has never touched my penis...
I think that is also the problem besides me being nervious. I don't want to loose her and I feel like I am. What should I do??
So first of all i've never had sex before, my gf is going crazy now cuz she wants to have sex... We've tried 3 times but I couldn't get a boner. I think the problem is that i'm nervious cuz it's the first time though i don't feel real nervious, now after trying 3 times I do cuz I don't want to disappoint her yet again...
She's older than me and has already had sex but I don't think she has lots of experience... Cuz she doesn't really do anything to make me get hard. She doesn't want to give me a blowjob (I've had that before), her hands are only and my back (IF I put them there, otherwise on my face...) She has never touched my penis...
I think that is also the problem besides me being nervious. I don't want to loose her and I feel like I am. What should I do??
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Hi Coran,
OK, I think the problem is that you are nervous too. It happens to a lot of guys.
It is not really just up to her to make you get hard. If she doesn't want to do certain things, you need to understand that, and accept it. You don't want to make her do something that she doesn't want to just because you want it to happen. You need to respect her wishes.
It's ok to talk about things too. Ask her why she won't touch your penis?
So what can you do? Find someplace comfortable, cuddle, snuggle, whatever you want. Don't focus on the sex. Just take your time and explore each other. Let whatever happens happen. Don't rush it. Talk to her, ask her what she wants, focus on her. The idea is to spend time on her so that you're ready to go.
Don't rush it, it'll happen.
OK, I think the problem is that you are nervous too. It happens to a lot of guys.
It is not really just up to her to make you get hard. If she doesn't want to do certain things, you need to understand that, and accept it. You don't want to make her do something that she doesn't want to just because you want it to happen. You need to respect her wishes.
It's ok to talk about things too. Ask her why she won't touch your penis?
So what can you do? Find someplace comfortable, cuddle, snuggle, whatever you want. Don't focus on the sex. Just take your time and explore each other. Let whatever happens happen. Don't rush it. Talk to her, ask her what she wants, focus on her. The idea is to spend time on her so that you're ready to go.
Don't rush it, it'll happen.
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