I recently tried having sex. We're both virgins and have been together for a while. The problem is that he couldn't get it in... the head did, but it'd just slip out. We just gave up after a bit because we were getting so frustrated. :/ I don't think lubrication was the problem, because we were using lubricated condoms.
He's tried fingering me too, but that doesn't work either. This sounds really pathetic, but I can't do it either. I'm 16 and I've never even used a tampon. I've looked down there, but I have no idea if my hymen's broken or how to do it. Whenever I try to finger myself, or my boyfriend does, a bit of the finger can get it and then it's like there's a wall stopping it. (I really can't think of another comparison, aha) I've heard that you can see a doctor about it, but I'd really rather leave that to the last resort because I don't have access to an ob gyn and my family doctor is older than moses and it would be so awkward... Could anyone tell me things that he or I can do?
He's tried fingering me too, but that doesn't work either. This sounds really pathetic, but I can't do it either. I'm 16 and I've never even used a tampon. I've looked down there, but I have no idea if my hymen's broken or how to do it. Whenever I try to finger myself, or my boyfriend does, a bit of the finger can get it and then it's like there's a wall stopping it. (I really can't think of another comparison, aha) I've heard that you can see a doctor about it, but I'd really rather leave that to the last resort because I don't have access to an ob gyn and my family doctor is older than moses and it would be so awkward... Could anyone tell me things that he or I can do?
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It sounds like to me lubrication is the problem. My boyfriend and i always use lubricated condoms, but if I'm not wet down there, there's no way he's getting in! Sometimes when I drink too much, I want to have sex but I am just too dry so we go for it anyway and it feels exactly like what you're saying. It feels like it's almost impossible for him to get inside of me, even though the condoms are lubricated. I would suggest prolonging foreplay to make sure YOU'RE lubricated, or try buying KY to help if it's just not working. There is also the possibility that you're just super tiny inside, which you'll have to work on. I am very "narrow" inside as my ob/gyn told me once, which usually results in painful sex unless i am wet. i totally understand how frustrated you're getting, but keep trying! If nothing else works, I'd go to the doctor for advice, but good luck!
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