chances of getting pregnant with condom and no ejaculation?

Guest over a year ago

I was told today that I am 8 weeks pregnant, through my first ultrasound, today is April, 14 2011. Which means I probably conceived on February 16 if im correct?
Im worried because on February 6th I had a one night stand with a guy I had barely met. It was only ONE night. I used protection, didn’t let him near me unless he had the condom on, and after 10 minutes into it, I made him stop because I felt guilty. So he didn’t finish, he didn’t get his orgasm. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for about 3 years now, every time we have sex we never use protection and he always finishes inside of me. Whats the chances that my baby is from the guy I barely met and the chances that its my boyfriends? HELP! im going insane trying to figure things out.

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medic-dan109453 over a year ago

Jocelynn,

Do you know when you ovulated in February? Or, when was your last period and how long a cycle do you usually have?

The ultrasound timing is fairly accurate but there is some variance. The other issue is that most doctors consider pregnancy starting from the first day of your last missed period.

Still, if you used protection and he didn't ejaculate then it is unlikely, but not impossible.

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Guest over a year ago

I dont know when i ovulate.

My last period was around February 26 and it usually lasts 5 days. I missed my period in March and thats when i found out i was pregnant.

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medic-dan109453 over a year ago

OK,

Your last period was February 26 and you had sex on February 16?

Was it a "normal" period? The reason I ask is that once you are pregnant you no longer have a true "period." During your period the lining of your uterus is shed and that can't happen if you're pregnant for obvious reasons.

Assuming a normal, 28 day, cycle, you would have had your prior period around January 29. Usually, you'd ovulate between days 11-16 which brings us to February 9-14. Sperm can remain viable for about 5 days, so having sex on the 6th takes you to the 11th. The egg remains viable for about 2 days past ovulation. You had sex with the other guy near the peak of your fertility.

In this case it is unlikely that you had a normal period at the end of February. The timing doesn't work for 8 weeks. While the ultrasound may be off a bit, you'd only be at best 5 weeks pregnant if this happened in March.

Did you have sex with your boyfriend around this time, that is the question.

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Guest over a year ago

well me and my boyfiend have sex at random times after february 6th, like 3 days later i did it with my boyfriend. I did it with him probably a week before February 6th . Its always so random that i dont keep track of the days.

My period looked normal in February. On my first appointment they told me I was 5 weeks pregnant. But this past week they told me i was 8 weeks because of the ultrasound.

It dosnt make sence to me either. :/

The guy didnt finish and he wore a condom. :[

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medic-dan109453 over a year ago

I'm still suspicious of how long you've been pregnant. If it is 5 weeks, and after your Feb. period, then it is not the "other" guy.

If it is 8 weeks, then there is no way to be sure, short of a DNA test. You had sex with both around your peak fertility. I still think it unlikely if he wore a condom the ENTIRE time he was in contact with you.

Did they hear a heartbeat? Could you see arms and legs? By 8 weeks they should be discernible.

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Guest over a year ago

I was thinking a DNA test aswell but what happens if it turns out its not my boyfriends. What do i do then.

He did I remember I didnt let him near me without the condom.

Yes i heard the heartbeat. Their was no arms or legs. It still looked like an egg to me. like big jellybean. I did see it wiggle. it moved.

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gasa184829 over a year ago

I think u forget whose is this now. It is in u and U got when U had some sex by UR choice fully or partly. But fact is if it covceived by one first , then whether second doing ejeculation or just touching and even sperm of second does not re concieve at all.

alisa

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medic-dan109453 over a year ago

At this point it looks like you'll need the DNA test.

The heartbeat tells me the fetus is likely more than 6 weeks or so along. It was likely conceived in February.

I'm sorry I can't answer your question about what happens with your boyfriend.

Good luck.

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Guest over a year ago

thank you. thank you for ur time too.

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Luna over a year ago

You should have had your baby by now congrats :) so do you finally know who the baby father is?

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Guest over a year ago

Hello, can you help me? I'm on a similar situation. Had sex once with a random guy, we used a condom. He didn't eyaculate and it was my ovulation day exactlly. That was on february 26. I had my period on march and april and then in may, I'm 7 days late. I haven't had sex with anyone else. Couldn't this be a pregnancy?

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medic-dan109453 over a year ago

Hi guest,
It's unlikely that you'd be pregnant since you used protection. Condoms are very effective, plus he didn't ejaculate. Precum is considered not to contain sperm if he has not, as in since the last time he urinated, ejaculated.
Were these "normal" periods for you? If so, again, it's unlikely you're pregnant. You can sometimes just be late.
You can always take a home test.
Good luck.

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Guest over a year ago

No , listen. You had PROTECTED sex on February, and then two periods later here you are. It is impossible to be pregnant. THE PERIOD CLEARS ANY CHANCE OF SPERM OUT:)

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Guest over a year ago

my girlfriend have unprotected sex on her first day of her period and i pull out finish awayw fromn her will she be pregnant

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