Someone please help me figure this out! :'(
This past January (around the very first week) I had sex with a guy who I had been dealing with since last October. We used a condom, but when he was done, the condom came out inside of me. After having trouble getting it out, about a week and a half later the condom appeared in the toilet when I went to pee. This exact day was January 15. I can't remember my EXACT LMP, but I do know it was the end of January. Then, I ended up getting back good with my ex boyfriend and we started having sex February 1st and every weekend after that.
On March 21, I went to the doctor and by measuring my sonogram. The sonographer told me that I was about 6 weeks and 6 days and that I was due NOVEMBER 8,2013 but she wasn't quite sure because I couldn't figure out my LMP. Then I went yesterday, April 11 for another sonogram and she told me I'm 9 weeks & 1 day and that my due date is NOW NOVEMBER 13, 2013. And not only that, when she used the wheel to "TRY" and determine when I conceived it was around February 8th that she said it may have went down. No day in February was I was with Guy (A), I was only with my EX BOYFRIEND. So I'm a little lost and confused as to whether I got pregnant in January during or after my pregnancy or if I just got pregnant in February when I was with my ex. I know that doctors usually date your pregnancy from your LMP, but since that isn't going to help my situation and I'm still UNSURE as to WHY they count it from your LMP, I've been trying to CALCULATE it as close as possible.
I would love to hear your opinions. If it's GUY (A)-First Guy. or if you think its most likely GUY (B)-Ex Boyfriend..
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE HELP!!! :'(
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I literally put this post out having no idea if people actually respond but because I'm a crazy "googler" for everything I decided to try it.
I appreciate it! I was truly concerned & of course wanting it to only be my ex boyfriends baby. Another question;
When I put my due date in a calculator(Nov 13) it said that I probably conceived around February 8th... Since it takes about 2 weeks to actually BECOME pregnant & counting back 2 weeks, would be the end of January, that still wouldn't leave GUY (A) for question? Be aware: I'm not too knowledgable when it comes to all this baby making stuff lol... So I could be just telling you what I'm reading. Does that apply to every women?
Another thing; last but not least...
My ex had a baby about 3 years ago w/someone else BEFORE we were committed. The baby was born at 6months because they cut the baby out of her & about 2 weeks after the baby pasaed away. apparently it had to do with her placenta & that the baby had no room to grow & develop. Funny thing is, when I went to the this past week she had the same concern for me. She said that the placement of my placenta & the SIZE of it(which was more shaped like a skinny banana) she felt concerned that maybe I wasn't getting enough fluid. I have to now go see an OB but I was wondering if that is something that is in his DNA(him producing) or is it just a coincidence that me & his ex are having similar issues? I've been pregnant by my ex once before & my first few months were a breeze except for morning sickness, but we decided not to keep it... So now that I'm only 9 weeks/few days, & the doctor already has concerns makes me also believe that this is definitely my ex's baby.
Feel free to reply w/your opinion!
Thanks!
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Nope, I haven't had sex with Guy A at all since the first week of January. That's why I was like there can't be a chance that it's his when I had sex with him an entire MONTH BEFORE me & my ex started messing around again! I guess my thing was, this never happened to me as far as a condom getting stuck inside of me so I was beating myself up, second guessing what I did when really I did the right thing. & too, I was thinking because I have my period normally towards the end of the month that it was really close since the first week of February I started back w/my ex. Most of my friends and even the first midwife I saw when I found out tells me I'm thinking entirely too much lol.....
But yes, you have definitely eased my worries a little because I needed a blunt opinion from someone who doesn't know me. I really appreciate you! You have no idea.... You sound like a wonderful mother, I can't wait for months to come where me & him can bond with our baby & do shopping & baby shower planning!!
I'm going to enjoy my pregnancy, & speak to my midwife about the issues of my ex boyfriends past experience with pregnancy & see if we can get some answers. I was concerned about what the dr told me but I have faith that my pregnancy happened for a reason & that this time for my ex it will be a success!!
I feel like I made a new friend! Thanks a lot!
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hi i also have the same problem please help me i dont know what to do , im so confused.. :( my LMP is april 12-17 2013 i had sex with my current boyfriend april 18-21 and with my ex on april 22 and then back with my current bf on april 23-27 , and then to my ex again on april 30 , may 4 and may 12. both of them had unprotected sex and cum inside of me , I had a pregnancy test on may 16 and found out that im pregnant. please help me , who do you think was the father of my baby , im now 18 weeks and 2 days pregnant and still confused of who's the father , do i have to consider the sperm count and the life span of his sperm? cuz i think my ex wasnt healthy , he drinks a lot of alcohol everyday and his sperm turns into transparent after a seconds (comes out white and turns to transparent in a second) , and its few like 4-5 drops.. we been together in 2yrs. i havent pregnant when we were together , but every other day we had sex. , this april my current boyfriend came in and i got pregnant. need some opinion and advice , i know its better to have a DNA test , but i just need an opinion now. thanks!
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