for the past few months my 19 year old boyfriend and I have been sexually active. I don't tell my mom cause she has told me that could be statutory rape. I'm 17&3/4 years old and turn 18 on June 1st. Somehong happened and recently I have been getting cramps starting around my side and abdomen area and now feels like its in my uterus. When I was having the side pain my mom who is a nurse ruled out appendcitis. But with the uterus cramps my boyfriend and I are afraid I'm pregnant. Or have pelvic inflamatory disease. We are going to wait I'll around the 20th's to see if I get my time and if I don't I know I am. I just want to know if I am and have to tell my mom that she's going to call the cops.
But I don't think she will cause she even told my dad who said if I were too ever become pregnant at this age to put up for adoption which I could never do. But my mom told menus have the baby at age 18 and can make my own decisions and if she were to call the cops I'd tell them I couldn't go through it without him and that I would have it at 18 since it's 80 days from now.
I just need advice please
But I don't think she will cause she even told my dad who said if I were too ever become pregnant at this age to put up for adoption which I could never do. But my mom told menus have the baby at age 18 and can make my own decisions and if she were to call the cops I'd tell them I couldn't go through it without him and that I would have it at 18 since it's 80 days from now.
I just need advice please
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Poor you you must be really worried (I know i was when i got preg at 20) but I would think you should be find on the stat rape thing it would depend on the law in you state/country I know in New Zealand its stat rape if under 16 I would however get checked out for a STI (PID) because chlamydia causes stomach pain and cramps which show up about 20(ish) days after infection and the other thing to check is for eptopic pregnancy (cause that could kill you, not trying to scare you but need to check it out) Remember Doc cant tell your mum without you permission so find one you trust (or a health center) and get checked Quick
Good Luck
Good Luck
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Tracy31, New Zealand Awesome country.
Confusedteen,
You do need to check the legal age for sex in your state. It can range from 16 to 18. Your boyfriend is old enough to buy a pregnancy test from the drug store. Go get one, although it may give you a false positive depending on how far you are along. I would follow Tracy31's advice and seek out a doctor. You might have to lie to get in the door. If it is an STD, you want to get it taken care of.
Holmestrix
Confusedteen,
You do need to check the legal age for sex in your state. It can range from 16 to 18. Your boyfriend is old enough to buy a pregnancy test from the drug store. Go get one, although it may give you a false positive depending on how far you are along. I would follow Tracy31's advice and seek out a doctor. You might have to lie to get in the door. If it is an STD, you want to get it taken care of.
Holmestrix
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