Depression after hysterectomy

I am 22 years old, and I just had everything but my ovaries removed on October tenth. I had to make the choice to do it, but didn't want to. I started my menstrual cycle at 14 and I just never stopped bleeding, literally. couldn't find an explanation for why it was happening. horrible cramps, migraines, and emotionally and physically drained constantly. A gyn/onc doctor said the only way to stop since lysteda and all other meds didn't work was to remove most of my reproductive organs. I had my son Odin April fifth of this same year, thank god. but I was dying to have a girl. all of my friends are having girls and second children now. I want to be happy for them but every time I see or think of a baby girl I start crying. I don't know if I feel like I made the wrong choice or what. Ive fought depression since fourteen and I was told this should help me feel better, but I don't. I feel that if a man was bleeding from his member for years there would be some miracle cure and it would be cheap or at least covered by insurance, but since its not, we just have to be even stronger and deal w the shitty parts of life w a smile on our faces.

No hard feeling but you should be happy that you already have one. I don't understand why you are depressed? You can always adope one or even more. I believe that your depression is the cause of the lackness of magnesium. Although depression after hysterectomy is normal but not for long. Give magnesium a try, they are like MAGNESIUM MIRACLE.

Let me ask, have you had a total hysterectomy? Do you suffer from depression? I would like to know if you yourself have suffered any of these things while you're so freely giving ridiculous "advice" to others. I have had a total Hysterectomy, when I was 32 years old for Cancer. Now I am 46 years old and still suffer the "loss" of not being able to have had another child. LADIES... it IS NORMAL to feel this way!!! Don't listen to this c**p!! The only thing that this person is correct about is how serious depression can be, I know have had 3 Suicides in my family. By all means get help if the depression gets bad. But YES ITS NORMAL to feel sad, empty and depressed after. It's been 14 years since mine and I still feel down occasionally about this.
Peace & Light to All

Yes it is common to be depressed after hysterectomy. Don't ever let anyone try to tell you your feelings are unusual or not real. How dare they!