i dont know, i personally think that if you know what youre doing then you are actually loosing your virginity! like the first girl i ever had sex with, to be honest, i had no idea what i was doing. in fact i didnt even have an orgasm with her! and i dont want to go against what everyone believes about tradition or what a dictionary tells you but you should just go by what you think! i think that i lost my virginity when i actually knew why i was having sex! not just because i was curious to know what it felt like! cuz i dont know i think like once you know why you are doing it, you have lost your innocence...and to me loosing your virginity is both a mental thing as well as a physical! but i dont beleive it can only be one. for example you cant say you arent a virgin if you have never had sex before, well you cant really say you arent a virgin if you did have sex but had no idea why you were doing it!
no joke i was way disappointed my first time i ever had sex cuz it wasnt what i expected it to be but now that i have sex with my wife and i know why i have sex with her, im never really disappointed even if i dont have an orgasm!
no joke i was way disappointed my first time i ever had sex cuz it wasnt what i expected it to be but now that i have sex with my wife and i know why i have sex with her, im never really disappointed even if i dont have an orgasm!
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hey Country baby girl ...ummm i just wanted to say that i dont think u can lose your Virginity 2 time it could just be that the guy that u lost your Virginity to ..was smaller then the guy you had sex with for the 2nd time and if you had sex for the 2nd time with the guy u lost your Virginity too then it could be just b.c you are havin sex again for the 2nd time i know when i lost mine i was 16 and i am now 17 i was bleeding the 1st time and it hurt like hell and i found sex to be REALLY boring and i didnt like it because i though that sex would always hurt me and the 2nd guy i had sex with it hurt even more because he was bigger then the guy i lost my Virginity to and i was bleeding just a bit but that was just because it was something bigger going inside me then the 1st time so its okay and im sure you will be fine .. :-)
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ABOUT THE BICYCLE, I'VE READ AND HEARD FROM VERY RELIABLE SOURCES THAT A LOT OF GIRLS' HYMENS BREAK FROM RIDING BIKES AND SPORTS AND OTHER THINGS LIKE THAT. AND THEY DONT EVEN NOTICE IT CAUSE IT USUALLY DOESN'T BLEED FOR SOME REASON....AND IF THIS HAPPENS, THEN UR STILL A VIRGIN. HYMEN OR NOT, AS LONG AS U HAVENT HAD SEX(PENILE PENETRATION), UR A VIRGIN.
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hey, the same thing happened to me, and this is what I was told by someone: yes, it does mean you lost your virginity, it just means u broke ur hymen. It hurt me the first time, too a little. dun worry about it. :)
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Last niite me and my boyfriend did it again!!! i lost my virginity April 16,07 but ii didnt bleed the first time. When we did it yesterday i bleed all over his sheets. I'm so scared to even touch myself rite now!!!*
what should ii do?!?!?*
what should ii do?!?!?*
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ii had sex for the first time April 16th, 07 but ii did not bleed!!!*
Then yesterday [May 11th] ii had sex again with my boyfriend~*! thiis time with a condom and ii did bleed!!!
Now ii am in so MUCH pain~*! yesterday my vagina was really puffy...now its better but it still hurts!!!
ii might be preganant but ii really dont know!!!*
Then yesterday [May 11th] ii had sex again with my boyfriend~*! thiis time with a condom and ii did bleed!!!
Now ii am in so MUCH pain~*! yesterday my vagina was really puffy...now its better but it still hurts!!!
ii might be preganant but ii really dont know!!!*
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welll my boyfriend and i, he went in most of the waay but i think i stopped him before he broke the hymen, because it really hurt and i couldnt take the pain, and i reaaly dont know if i have a hymen at all...im so confused if hes went in im a virgin or not? im so worried i dont know what to do.....
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You can't lose your virginity again. It's a one-time kind of thing. It has to do with intercourse, not hymen breakage.
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so im not a virgin anymore? welll i mean i love that i lost it too the boy im with because we've together for a long time now, but the age is not at all what i expected.....
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welll so im not a virgin anymore than? i mean im so glad i lost it too the boy im with now, because we've been together for awhile now and hes the one i see myself with like forty years from now, i juust didnt think id loose it at this age...
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oops guys the second one was me too..
i posted it under guest on accident..
but i still need the advice. (:
i posted it under guest on accident..
but i still need the advice. (:
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Hello how are ya all doing
its just that when i am aving sex it dont feel anything why is that?
its just that when i am aving sex it dont feel anything why is that?
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ok not sure if anyone said this or not but, in a female's sexual organ they have something that breaks when they have something enter their vagina, may it be a penis or a toy, but as far as i know it happens the first time only, but it might happen to some people more then once, im male so i have no idea i just know that much and im not a doctor.
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Being a virgin is a personal opinion.
For example, horseriding can break the hymen and you're still a virgin if you didn't shag the horse.
How did he ACCIDENTALLY do it? Sounds a bit sus to me. lol.
Anyways, if you don't view it as sex then ok.
My personal opinion would be that this wasn't sex and you are a virgin in my books, but it's up to you.
Besides, what you call yourself really doesn't matter. So long as you enjoy life, be safe and have some respect for yourself then just chill out about the situation.
For theother user... your future husband will NOT be able to tell whether you are a virgin or not. Like I say, hymens break in other ways.
For example, horseriding can break the hymen and you're still a virgin if you didn't shag the horse.
How did he ACCIDENTALLY do it? Sounds a bit sus to me. lol.
Anyways, if you don't view it as sex then ok.
My personal opinion would be that this wasn't sex and you are a virgin in my books, but it's up to you.
Besides, what you call yourself really doesn't matter. So long as you enjoy life, be safe and have some respect for yourself then just chill out about the situation.
For theother user... your future husband will NOT be able to tell whether you are a virgin or not. Like I say, hymens break in other ways.
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