Hello. I noticed a bunch of you ladies are having similar issues I am having. But does anyone have an answer? I am 27, I have 3 amazing little boys. After I had my last one, due to health concerns throughout every pregnancy, I had my tubes tied. Well this happened April 2013, little over 2 1/2 years. Last 2 months were very light and spotty, as if I was pregnant. This month, I've got nothing. I have been irritable, hot and cold, very fatigued, I notice my lower back hurts, and I'm nauseated. I even feel cramps like I'm going to have my period. But I still get nothing. I took 3 pregnancies test. All early in the morning and they are negative. In the past I have had problem after problem with my pregnancies. Kidney stones that led to 3 stent surgeries while I was pregnant with my middle child, after giving birth, they took me straight to have lithotripsy done, pneumonia with all boys on multiple occasions which led me to I.C.U. I have had 5 totaled miscarriages. I have had tubal pregnancies and I know the outcome. I just want to know if anyone has had this happen and answers to this. I'm afraid to go to the e.r. because I don't want to be looked at like I'm crazy. Worse, have 5 nurses starting at my vagina, then for them to tell me I'm a nut job. *Id like to keep what little i have of my dignity*