I have a couple of issues concerning my ejaculation. I am a 45 yr old healthy male , married having normal erections and a normal sexual relationship with my wife of 15 years. However if i should go say 4 days without an orgasm, my testicles become so tight, and if my wife rubs up against me and gets me the least bit excited, before i even become erect, I sometimes ejaculate (not the normal amount, just a squirt) before i even become erect....Also, sometimes when taking a cold medicine, this happens like when i go to urinate, the ejaculate spills out as well...Could I have a prostate problem.? I have had it checked yearly and it comes back fine.....