I know some of this can be a confidence issue and/or performance anxiety, but can wearing spandex shorts for most of the day everyday make it more difficult to get an erection? Because lately, I've had many of opportunities to have intercourse, but lately, it has been extremely difficult to get an erection. I am still fairly young, so I'm trying to rule out erectile dysfunction, but I just don't know what else it could be. Sometimes I can get an erection during foreplay, but when it comes time to it, I lose the erection. Masturbation isn't too much of a problem, it just comes down to the time of the act of intercourse. Would anxiety medicine help any? I mean, I could use it in general because of my anxiety, but I just don't know what to do or think. Any information or help would be greatly appreciated.
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My boyfriend has the same problem. This all new coming to him. He has overly working himself past couple weeks and hasn't had much sleep this could be a reason.
Look, the erectile problems happen when a boy can't get or keep an erection during the intercourse. In some cases, he is not able to get an erection at all, which is frustrating. Or, you may lose the erection during intercourse before you both are ready. But you need to know that this is all related and connected because to get an erection, everything in your body and in your body works - your brain, nerves, hormones, and blood vessels. They all need to work together to accomplish this. Sometimes, boys cannot control all of those. This all can lead to erectile problems and sometimes, and it requires a talking to someone who is an expert. A doctor may suggest you some medicines or even a natural treatment for erectile dysfunction, it all depends on which stage of the problem the person is.
Thoughtful mothers, when they begin to notice frequent erections in their boys, will begin a special nighttime ritual at least several times a week. At bedtime, the mom will give her son a very relaxing and thorough back rub which puts the boy in a very passive relaxed sleep, with many boys almost asleep at that point. The mom gently helps flip the boy into his back and proceeds to give a very soft and soothing massage to the boys neck and chest. This puts most boys into a quasi-sleep mode. At that point, the mom simply moves the massage lower on the boy’s body, including his boxer briefs. Many boys at this point aren’t mentally aware or register what’s going on. He won’t notice (or care) when her fingertips start to gently massage his boxer briefs. Won’t notice when his penis begins to lengthen and stiffen inside the briefs. But mom will. She will then begin to focus her massage on the material over the head of the boy’s penis, the most sensitive area of his young body. He will attain a full erection very rapidly. He won’t notice when her fingers then begin to massage the glans of his penis, below the head, nor that her other hand is gently massaging the fabric covering his testicles. At this point he is fully sexually aroused. The mom will soon feel the wetness through the fabric of his precum. At this point, the mom will stop and use her fingers to open the slit of the boxer briefs, allowing her son’s erection to naturally come out in the open air. Using her son’s own precum as a lubricant, she can gently massage his entire penis with her hand to bring him to a full and quick ejaculation in his sleep. Some mothers instead will simply lower their mouth onto the head of the penis and using a combination of sucking and licking the head, bring the boy to ejaculate directly into her mouth.
