Erection problems because of porn and masturbating allot.

..the solution to your problem is to abstain from all kind of sexual activites and repent from it now if you are married then pray for God help you to be faithful and if not until you are married flee from fornication as this is sin to God.. God bless you..!!

a few people have already said it but it seems noone is listening to them. IT IS 100% DUE TO NERVES.

You guys are young and desperate to please your partner. Don't worry about it, just focus on the feeling and the intimacy - she doesn't care if you can't make her orgasm, she will still enjoy it, especially if it is intimate. don't be embarrassed if you feel you are going to cum, just slow down and tell her she is turning you on so much you have to slow down to prevent cumming. notice how she reacts to everything, tell her how much she is turning you on, tell her you love her (if you do), be mindful of all the sensations you are experiencing, and just go as slow as you can handle. do all this and guess what? she is likely to orgasm and you are likely to orgasm with her, at the same time. but it doesn't matter if this doesn't happen. and if you cum just tell her how irresistable she was, but don't apologise, and continue to stimulate her until you can get hard again then go again. and remember to relax.

you will be turned on if you are turning her on too, so spend time teasing her with foreplay, making her beg for it, and then give it to her.

I too had this problem, i went from being single for over a year with an occasional sexual encounter and whacking off to porn literally 3 or 4 times a day, to a fully intimate relationship. At the beginning of the relationship, i could not get enough. We where at it like rabbits daily, more often than not several times a day. My sexual appetite remained the same for well into the second year of our relationship.

Then bam, i woke up one morning and i have never been the same, nothing dramatically changed in my life. In the past 5 months, i think i had managed to satisfy and make love properly twice, with out my main man letting me down haha. The weird thing that i just cant figure out, is that i can sustain a full erection and ejaculate whilst watching porn by my self. But no make what we tried or did, even watching porn together, just didn't work. This caused serious friction the relationship, as she thought i was not attracted to her anymore. Which in turn led to her resenting me, which then caused arguments. Which led to what was once a fairytale engagement, being called off.I am now scared to even try engaging into a intimate relationship, just in cause the same thing happens again. It has started to really get to me causing me anxiety and depression. Before this happened i had a huge ego, and some may say i was over confident. I now feel like a broken sole, i am a mere fraction of a shadow, of the former man i used to be.Please Help? I am open to all suggestions, i really appreciate the time you have spent reading this.Kind Regards Mr x

P.s, I not due to old age either as i am in my early twenties.       

before sex rub her and squeeze her make out first this will get u hard

Fornication is what keeps every species on this planet continuing. What you are saying is crazy talk. Believing in god is fine, but you are obviously one of those people that takes things too far.. Use your brain.

Seriously, f**k you.

I've masturbated half my life.  The solution to this problem is simple. STOP MASTURBATING.  I've lost erection in the middle of sex a billion times and it has been embarrassing.  Whenever I go 2-4 weeks without masturbation, my penis is hard and performs as it ought to.  Our penis was meant for sex not masturbation.  Stop masturbating for a few weeks and I GUARANTEE the problem is solved.  Been there, done that. 

hey, kid I had your problem too. Focus on having sex with your girl more than watching porn. The reason why you get hard watching porn is because they do more stuff that is arousing and there is no limit to the sexual boundaries. Most of the things you fantasize about when watching porn will probably never happen in real life. With porn you can go beyond this boring reality and use your imagination to have any sexual fantasy you desire. With reality based sex there are boundaries depending on the girl friend you have. You might like getting blow jobs, but she might not like giving them. Therefore, your fantasy about getting a blow job is not fufilled.

You're obviously a homo

Probably a mix of porn and nerves. Masturbation unless 10+ times a day would not cause that (without the porn).

Probably a mix of porn and nerves. Masturbation unless 10+ times a day would not cause that (without the porn).

THIS IS HOW YOU FIX IT.. RELAX AND THINK IN YOUR HEAD SHE WANTS ME TO F*CK HER 

As the wife of a porn addict, I can tell you that repeated masturbating to porn will kill your sex life and put any relationship you have, married or a girlfriend, at high risk of loss by affairs, losing your partner, etc.  If she's not getting it from you, guess where she goes--elsewhere unless she's a very STRONG and PATIENT woman.  Man up and prove your commitment is to her ONLY and not what you watch in a porn movie or porn on the Internet. There are many support groups for porn addicts.  The first step is recognizing that you are one and need help.

This really sucks I have no idea what to do. I know i'm in love with this girl, and she is perfect and she is hot. and I get turned on by her. But i am really having problems getting a full erection. i can get probably like 70% but nothing more, and it really sucks, I hate it. I'm super turned on by her. I just can't get super hard. With my ex as soon as we were alone, it was on and I could have sex with girl all the time. But with this new girl, I have no idea what to do. I just want it to work with new girl. She is perfect 

It's amazing how so many doctors and 'credible' sites will just blame nerves or prescribe chemical drugs for porn-induced erectile dysfunction. ED has always just been a thing for old men - very, very rarely for young people - and for guys under 20 to have trouble getting it up with their girlfriends is just crazy. The problem is the highly stimulating porn. It desensitises you to real girls, by literally overloading your arousal pathways in your brain and reducing your sensitivity to natural sensitivity.

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