okay last month on march 14th, a wednesday (or the day before I am not exactly sure which) i started my normal period which was on time.
A week later on wednesday March 21 my period ended in my sleep before I woke up.
I had little or no discharge, as per usual, and that wouldnt start for a few more days.
That night (wednesday night/thursday morning at 2am) I had sex with my boyfriend
He used a condom and it was our first time. It hurt really bad so he only went in half way twice but it still hurt so he thought maybe he put it on backwards since it felt dry, so he flipped it (we definitely were not thinking)
and it was a lot wetter this time and it went in one more time about fully but still no thrusting, it still hurt so he stopped and pulled it out and threw it away.
The next day I thought about precum and freaked out and told him and he bought the morning after pill
After reading all the bad things it can do to you we decided to look at our facts and decide if I should take it.
We read there is almost no sperm in precum unless he ejaculated shortly before.
He had not ejaculated in at least 12 hours, but possibly right around there.
Urinated probably 2 or 3 times, once including RIGHT before we did it.
And we realized the day my period ended was one of the safer times to do it
I stressed a lot for a day or 2 before the facts made us think I was not going to get pregnant and decided not to take the pill but then a day later I had another crisis realizing it was still possible and became stressed again for a few days.
On the following Friday, March 30th, i experienced that morning what felt like ovulation symptoms. Slight cramping in my lower abdomen on one side lasting for maybe 20 minutes
We took a first response early result pregnancy test on tuesday, April 10th. This was exactly 3 weeks minus 1 day after we did it.
I was realizing at this point that under ideal conditions, if he DID happen to contain sperm and it did live in me for the maximum of 7 days then i would have had to ovulate no later than wednesday night, march 28th.
Meaning 2 weeks later would have been my missed period if I had ovulated a week after my period ended like i usually do.
We took a first response early result pregnancy test on tuesday, April 10th. This was exactly 3 weeks minus 1 day after we did it. In other words, 1 day before my missed period if I had ovulated at the LATEST that his sperm could have theoretically survived inside me.
The test came up negative but it was only one test.
But my thinking was that it says you can take it up to 6 days early and i was taking it only 1 day early if some how the perfect circumstances had taken place to allow his sperm to live the maximum time inside me, so if I had ovulated any early that that which would have been earlier than I ovulated in any of my recent periods then it would have already been on or past my missed period and should have showed up positive right? So this assured me.
I was then expecting my period on friday April 13th
It was now Sunday April 15th and no period.
I am more stressed than I have ever been in my life.
My breasts are slightly sore but they usually are before my period.
I have had slight cramping on and off, but i have had that ever since i got off my period and i have those anytime during every month so that doesnt tell me much.
I have had a little fatigue in the last few days but that only started after i stayed up until 4am and had to get up at 5:30 for school and havent got much sleep since, so that may be a combination of little sleep and stress
But at this point I am convinced I am pregnant.
I plan on testing tonight but i am extremely scared to because I am not ready to be pregnant.
However this turns out, lesson learned. I am not letting anything go inside me again until I am at least 18(2 years from now) and then maybe even not unless it is with the RIGHT one (which this one is, because we have been together for 3 years and plan on being together for the next forever)
PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK AND IF YOU THINK I AM EXTREMELY UNLUCKY AND ACTUALLY CONCEIVED
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oh and i forgot to mention, the night we did it, which was my first time and it hurt really bad, when i got home i looked at my underwear and there was a little blood mixed with waterish stuff.
im assuming thats just from my hymen tearing or something? but the waterish stuff is what confuses me
im assuming thats just from my hymen tearing or something? but the waterish stuff is what confuses me
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OKAY 1 more update and then im all set:
my cm right now is what i THINK is usual at the end of my period.
it is less than during the middle like usual and it is a little wet but thick at the same time and yellowish white color
please reply im not getting any help
my cm right now is what i THINK is usual at the end of my period.
it is less than during the middle like usual and it is a little wet but thick at the same time and yellowish white color
please reply im not getting any help
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I don't think your pregnant hunny. which you probably know by now. if you've been with the guy for three years then thats amazing you shouldn't wait until your eighteen just because of a little scare. Just be more careful. ask your mum to put you on the pill?
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I don't think your pregnant hunny. which you probably know by now. if you have been with the guy for three years then thats amazing you shouldn't wait until your eighteen just because of a little scare. Just be more careful. ask your mum to put you on the pill?
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It is assuring to hear someone tell me they don't think I am but the fact that I'm still late on period now 2 and a half days when I am never late still has me scared and stressed. I'm visiting family and driving home tonight do I can't test again until tonight and I just hope it turns out negative but I have a bad feeling it might not
Even though My body doesn't really feel different than any other month
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i was wondering if anyone else had any input on whether or not i may be pregnant?
do these symptoms im having make it seem as though i am? since i am 2-3 days late and have soreness in my breasts as well as wetish/thickish white/yellow discharge?
i just dont see how i could have got pregnant based on what happened but i cant stop thinking i am
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Something I learned, you can get pregnant anytime...whether it's your first time, you're on your period or whatever. I got pregnant on the last day of my period from pre-cum. He did not finish as it went limp. ( He had been drinking and that happens sometimes.) People that say you can't get pregnant on your period or from pre-cum are totally wrong. I got pregnant with both of those. Pre-cum does contain sperm, otherwise I wouldn't have a son.
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well i am planning on taking a second test soon but i am too scared to take it in case it reads positive...
what should i do? just take it?
i am sooooooo stressed out and have been and i just want it to be over but if it says positive it will just continue
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I just took test number 2 and once again got a negative, which I am so happy about but at the same time i read about a lot of girls who showed negative a month in so I'm stil cautious since I don't have my period.
I took first response early result pregnancy test 2 days before expected period and it was negative
Now I took one 3-4 days after expected period but still negative
Should I consider myself not pregnant?
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It's best to take a test after you miss your period. It's supposed to be more accurate. I would wait another week and try one more. If it's negative, I'd think you were in the clear.
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well i did miss my period, its about 4 days late and it was still negative
my boobs have been sore but not anymore than usual around my period
and today i had slight cramps like also i usually get before my period starts
maybe its just starting late?
however i know these are also pregnancy symptoms.
maybe i got a false positive, but ill test again thursday if my period is a week late
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