Extra merital affair

Dear Rajni

You need to be more specific about exactly what happened, and what has happened since.

1. "My husband found me with another guy".
   • Who were you with?
   • Where were you?
   • What exactly were you doing?
   • Why were you doing that?
   • How did he find you?
2. "I said that was not me"
   • If he found you, why did you say it was not you?
   • What does the other guy say about it?
3. "his angry"
   • If you have been unfaithful and have had an extra-marital affair, I'm not surprised he's angry.
   • How is his anger shown?
4. "he want me accept all"
   • What exactly does he want you to accept?
   • If you have had an extra-marital affair, surely you have to accept responsibility for what you have done?
5. "what can I do"
   • Where are you from?
   • What are the cultural or religious implications?
   • You could seek forgiveness, with a promise not to be unfaithful again.
   • You need to take steps to ensure it doesn't happen again (another discussion!)

I hope this helps as a start. I await your responses.

  I have very big dispute with my husband we r on vocation after 7 years but before we left our place my husband saw my SMS with my boyfriend he want me admit all that but I want to do so I said that was not me may be somebody used my phone or hacked my I'd but he is not convinced Bcoz he knows  bout that guy he is my friends hubby our holidays r almost finish his staying with his pArents and with mine we r not in talking terms