Hi. So here goes. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend now for almost 3 years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son who means the world to me. Recently I have been struggling with paranoia. We both work full time but never seem to have a day together. A sit up for hours thinking the worst even tho in my heart I know she loves me, I was in another serious relationship for 4 years and ended up getting g cheated on and it's a pain that i would never want to experience again. I know that that might be why I feel like I do I just don't know how to control this! I've found myself pushing her away because I'm scared of getting hurt again (putting up a barrier) because I know that if it was to happen with this one it would only be a hundred times more painful. If anyone can help me deal with this or suggest anything at all I would be extremely grateful.
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Hi,
Talk to a counselor or therapist. You can open up with them and discuss your feelings/concerns.
Do it sooner rather than later. Don't drive her away.
Hang in there. Good luck.
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