Last night, I was going to have sex with this one girl who I just met in the bar. It was my first in 22 years (I am 22 year-old and still a virgin). But the thing is that I didn't erect at all. I was trying playing with myself so that it could erect, but I was ejectulating. And it was happening twice that night. Last night I haven't put it in her at all and I was so embarrassing. And another thing is that I wasn't very pleasure while playing with her breast. I didn't feel as pleasure as watching porn.
Little back story, I was trying to have sex for a week. I was so desperate to have sex. I was trying to do anything just to lost my virginity. Last night, I was hitting the bar and met that girl. Actually, I didn’t like her at all. She’s not hot and beautiful. And her odor is pretty bad because she’s been drink. I was talking to her and she agreed to have sex but I have wait till, and I was waiting for hours from 9pm to 1am. but I ended up with her in the hotel and all the above story happened :-(
Can anybody help me with this situation? I fear that my sex-life could be ruined!!!
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Hi Kevin,
It's NORMAL, especially for the first time, to have trouble "getting it up." You're nervous for one, in this case you didn't really like the girl and she smelled, so your body just didn't perform.
It's OK and doesn't mean anything. Anxiety or stress will KILL an erection.
Wait until you find the "right" girl.
Hope it helps.
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Lots of men have this experience, especially if it is their first time and they are nervous. In the vast majority of cases, it’s not a physical problem; it’s a psychological or emotional one. It sounds like you were putting too much pressure on yourself (as many men do, especially before they have a lot of experience with partner sex), and that has the effect of KEEPING you from performing the way you want to. Try to relax more, and allow yourself to accept that this is something new to you and that this will become less of an issue with you as you get more experienced and accepting. On a different note, remember to keep your penis in good general health through the regular use of a quality penis vitamin cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). A cream that includes L-arginine, which helps with penis blood flow issues, is best.
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