Hello, im 18 years old and i have recently started to finger my girlfriend. She tells me it feels great for her during but afterward she tells me that her vagina is sore. she tells me that her vagina remains sore for two or three days after i finger her and then goes away. ive only been using one finger since we just started. I also keep my fingers as groomed as possible. Am I doing something wrong? any tips or suggestions would be much appreciated. thank you.=]
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I would say yes load up on the lube :-D also if you haven't make sure your fingernails are kept nice and short. finally the more aroused she is before you actually enter her the easier and more pleasurable it will be for her. have you tried puting some lube on the outside of her vulva and just spent time playing around there and the clitoris? these things should help her from getting as sore. another possibility is that your being a bit rough (remember its her body, talk to her and make sure she lets you know what she likes...)
Good luck 8)
Good luck 8)
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Thank you for all of your advise. My girlfriend and I was talking earlier and we believed that it had something to do with it being new to her and that I was just stretching her out alittle. Is there any truth to that? Thank you.
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ABSOLUTLY. especially if you guys were having a little "too much" fun XD also if she has never had actual intercourse or it has been a long time than yes her vaginal opening could be quite tight..... all the more reason to go slow, take your time, and use lube.
good luck :-D
good luck :-D
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