im 16 & had sex for the first time last friday {today being thursday} tuesday morning i woke up with a really bad pain in my lower abdominal area. i went to school & had to go to the bathroom every 15-20 minutes. my teacher got really worried & asked me if i was okay. afraid of her telling my mom, i just told her i was having lots of cramps due to my period. this was a lie because i had my period around 2 weeks before last friday. everytime i go to the bathroom after i urinate, i have this really bad pain as if my insides were being squeezed. i wipe myself & i see this pinkish almost blood-like discharge. even though, in my panty liner i dont see anything. i dont know what to do. i saw this about implantation bleedin but i think it would be too soon since it hasn't even been a week since i had sex. i told my aunt about it & she says its normal. that my insides are just getting accustomed, but i dont think i believe her. PLEASE, PLEASE someone who knows about this or has been through something similar, please tell me if this is normal. my boyfrined tells me we should go to the clinic to make sure im not hurt or anything but im afraid they would want to tell my mom. THANK U o.O
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I understand your concern about your parents, but it could be something serious. If your parents knew about it they would want you to go to the clinic.
Consider the options and prepare yourself for the worst so that you can handle whatever the outcome. At worst, you are pregnant and your parents might be upset and, although your life will be effected by it, there is a reason these things happen.
Another possibility is that you have an STD in which case, the faster you get treatment the better chance that it will not harm you in any lasting way.
If it is an ectopic pregnancy then surgery may be required if not caught early enough it could kill you.
Also, sometimes clinics will respect your privacy 100%. However, if you are unsure about this you can have your boyfriend or a very very close friend find out for you or go with your Aunt if you trust her.
If your aunt does not know about the sex situation then just tell her that you aren't feeling well and that you feel sick and need to be checked out. At some clinics you can even give a different name if you don't want to be tracked.
Consider the options and prepare yourself for the worst so that you can handle whatever the outcome. At worst, you are pregnant and your parents might be upset and, although your life will be effected by it, there is a reason these things happen.
Another possibility is that you have an STD in which case, the faster you get treatment the better chance that it will not harm you in any lasting way.
If it is an ectopic pregnancy then surgery may be required if not caught early enough it could kill you.
Also, sometimes clinics will respect your privacy 100%. However, if you are unsure about this you can have your boyfriend or a very very close friend find out for you or go with your Aunt if you trust her.
If your aunt does not know about the sex situation then just tell her that you aren't feeling well and that you feel sick and need to be checked out. At some clinics you can even give a different name if you don't want to be tracked.
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