Hey, Im 23 and I am experiencing some sort of erection problem.
Problem: When I masturbate I start off with a hard erection like normal but about a minute before I orgasm it goes soft (well mostly semi so half way inbetween). When I have Sex it is usually worse in the fact it goes that soft right before i orgasm that I dont at ALL. But then sometimes it seems to work fine. It slightly started 2 years ago but only mainly became a problem in the last 12 months.
In the five encournters I have had with women this year it has been a problem for 3 of the times. The other 2 could have been coming close. I was thinking that maybe I have trained my penis to orgasm when I was semi erect when masturbating which is causing most of my problems. Is this what is happening or is it something else. I Dont smoke but do drink on weekends and I masturbate 4 times a week on average. The problem has led me to avoiding having sex cause I dont want to leave aa bda impression.
Problem: When I masturbate I start off with a hard erection like normal but about a minute before I orgasm it goes soft (well mostly semi so half way inbetween). When I have Sex it is usually worse in the fact it goes that soft right before i orgasm that I dont at ALL. But then sometimes it seems to work fine. It slightly started 2 years ago but only mainly became a problem in the last 12 months.
In the five encournters I have had with women this year it has been a problem for 3 of the times. The other 2 could have been coming close. I was thinking that maybe I have trained my penis to orgasm when I was semi erect when masturbating which is causing most of my problems. Is this what is happening or is it something else. I Dont smoke but do drink on weekends and I masturbate 4 times a week on average. The problem has led me to avoiding having sex cause I dont want to leave aa bda impression.
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You mentioned that you have trained yourself to orgasm when semi-erect. I would focus the time you spend masturbating on ensuring that you are experiencing a full erection. You can start by focusing on maintaining an erection without worrying about orgasming. If this is successful, you can progress to orgasming while erect. However, if you're still having erection problems, I would visit your doctor and explain the issue.
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As a wife of someone suffering from erectile dysfunction, I'd like to say that it's extremely frustrating! I do everything to help him out (oral, manual, trying wild things and whatever strange position he can think of) yet nothing helps. He continues to lose his erection at the most inopportune times, and it hardly seems worth the time, effort, and trouble anymore. To be honest, I'm tired of faking, contorting my body into ridiculous positions, and physically torturing myself for his pleasure. A dubious pleasure without a climax. What's the point? I feel like a sperm receptacle now, and half the time he doesn't even finish.
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in reply to the wife asking if it is worth even trying anymore i suggest you do continue.
it is so embarrassing for the male that the last thing they need is for there partner to either talk them down more or stop helping them at all.
get some toys so that once he is done he can finish you off with the toys, he needs your help, dont leave him alone when he needs your help.
it is so embarrassing for the male that the last thing they need is for there partner to either talk them down more or stop helping them at all.
get some toys so that once he is done he can finish you off with the toys, he needs your help, dont leave him alone when he needs your help.
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Jesus Christ. How insensitive are you? You think your husband WANTS to lose his erection? I assure you this is infinitely more frustrating for him than it is for you. I cannot even begin to convey to you the shame of wanting to please someone you are close to and not being able to.
Get a clue. This sucks for everyone involved but your attitude is most certainly not helping the situation.
Get a clue. This sucks for everyone involved but your attitude is most certainly not helping the situation.
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Message for the wife. Mabye he's not attracted to you is why he's having issues and by your response I can see why. To me it may seem your shallow and selfish. No man wants or enjoys having issues down stairs, also mabye hes getting it somwhere else and doest have any mojo left for you. Lmao
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How do you think she feels doing everything under the sun and still cant get a decent lay? That's all men think about are themselves. I could understand if she just laid there but it's pointless to screw with an half erect penis. My goodness the woman can't feel it! The man is the only one that gets pleasure.
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You are a garbage human being. The man isn't getting as much pleasure as you think and you obviously don't understand how crushing this could be. You deserve someone just like you. Selfish, uncaring and shallow.
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