So me and my boyfriend just started having sex about 3 months ago, and about half the time about 1-2 days after having sex, it is super hard to pee and only a little bit comes out each time, but seems like I have to pee every 10-15 minutes, like about to pee my pants, and then the next day it stops and I can pee normally, is this normal? And when we were using condoms I didn't feel any discomfort at all but since starting birth control and stopping the use of condoms, every time he cums, it hurts when he keeps moving inside me, even if I haven't yet, but once we stop for about 20 minutes I'm fine again, is this normal?