Hello,

I was married earlier in the year however separated from my husband when I found out he cheated on me. I started talking to my now baby father (Mike) and I ended up with an unplanned pregnancy. Side note: I thought I couldnt have kids as my exhusband and I tried for 3 yrs and the doctors wanted me to tke more tests but I couldnt afford it so I assumed I couldnt have kids..Therefore when Mike and I started to date the one time I had too much to drink I became prego.Im am 25yrs and so is Mike. He was very mature and hardworking and he also has a 5 yr old son. So when I found out I was prego I decided I will keep the baby because I believe it is a blessing as again I thought I couldn't conceive. We weren't living in the same place when I found out I was prego;when I told Mike he stated he was happy and we should move in together...Naturally I jumped as I figured it will be the best as I was already happy with him so it can only get better; wrong!

We have been renting a place now since July and I have been miserable since then. Again we only dated for a month before the pregnancy and now I guess the honeymoon phase has worn off. He is very selfish. He thinks only for himself. I still work and he wants me to do all the cooking;his excuse he doesnt know how to cook. I have to ask him to clean up behind himself. He has also gained so much weight from overeating. He also jacks off at least 3 hours a day to porn. He disgusts me. I can't believe he turned out to be this way. I have told him plenty of times how I feel but he continues to just do what he wants...everytime he talks to his son he makes sure to do it when I am not around; he hasn't told his son he has a little brother on the way.

I am just fed up. I know what love feels like and this isn't it. I don't think the baby will change anything in Mike because his first son didn't. I can't wait for him to grow up into the person I would want my son to look up to. And I can't take care of his man-child behavior.

I don't know if there is a question in my post but please can someone just let me know if they have been through the same thing? I don't feel like I am overreacting but then again I have never been prego before. I am just exhausted and not happy. I try to think if I wasn't prego if I will still be with him and honestly the answer is no. So where do I go from here?