Hey I am a 15 yr old male and i just lost my virginity
I am very upset that sex didn't feel as good as i thought it would
Even a blowjob feels a lil better
Did i do something wrong what should i do to make sex feel better
Maybe i ddin't get my girlfriend wet enough or what please help
Or maybe it was from over rmasterbation i masterbate rapidly atleast once a day
so please help? what should i do?
I am very upset that sex didn't feel as good as i thought it would
Even a blowjob feels a lil better
Did i do something wrong what should i do to make sex feel better
Maybe i ddin't get my girlfriend wet enough or what please help
Or maybe it was from over rmasterbation i masterbate rapidly atleast once a day
so please help? what should i do?
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I'm sure the first time you masterbated was not as good as it is now? Practice makes perfect and as you get to know your body with a partner you'll learn to enjoy it more. You also might want to consider changing your masterbation style to a slower movement that more closely mimics sex so you won't be de-sensitized from rapid movements.
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You don't want to mastabate all the time u can do it up to 3 times a week i go over to 4 or 5 sometimes i kno b/c i read a article a long time ago last year. When i lost my virginity at 14 (15 now 16 in Semp.) it was awsome but i didn't go in all the way....
PS: don't do it rapidly unless u plan on ripping skin....
PS: don't do it rapidly unless u plan on ripping skin....
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Take your time.. the first time normally is not good anyway. It is not you or her it is just the first time.
Commnunication and patience is what will help. Learn eachother's bodys and what feels good and what doesnt, talk about it. Explore and relax... relaxation and being comfortable also helps tons.
As far as masturbation, I would slow it down if I were you... try to mimic sex and get into the groove, there is no hurry is there??
Lubrication always can help.
OH and by the way, masturbation everyday or even 3 times a day is FINE and if that is what you want or need then do it. Not sure what so called article was read by the poster above, but it sounds silly.... masturbation doesnt hurt you or sex unless you do it with steel wool.
I musturbate everyday and my hubby and I have "playtime" at least 2 times a day and it doesnt hurt anything at all.. we are very healthy and happy and we are both 33 years old and been together for over 14 years.
Just relax, do what feels good and find what feels good for your girl.
Commnunication and patience is what will help. Learn eachother's bodys and what feels good and what doesnt, talk about it. Explore and relax... relaxation and being comfortable also helps tons.
As far as masturbation, I would slow it down if I were you... try to mimic sex and get into the groove, there is no hurry is there??
Lubrication always can help.
OH and by the way, masturbation everyday or even 3 times a day is FINE and if that is what you want or need then do it. Not sure what so called article was read by the poster above, but it sounds silly.... masturbation doesnt hurt you or sex unless you do it with steel wool.
I musturbate everyday and my hubby and I have "playtime" at least 2 times a day and it doesnt hurt anything at all.. we are very healthy and happy and we are both 33 years old and been together for over 14 years.
Just relax, do what feels good and find what feels good for your girl.
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well.... if you dont have enough lubrication with masterbating or sex, you can make a friction burn that isnt very pleasant. Its not much of a big deal, but if you dont let it heal it can get worse, and be uncomfortable.
no theres nothing wrong with you b/c it wasnt great the first time. A lot of people build up what they think sex will be like in their heads for the first time, and find that it is different than the fantasy that they had built it up to be.
It doesnt mean that sex will never be great, you just have to learn and become more experienced as you go on in your relationships.
no theres nothing wrong with you b/c it wasnt great the first time. A lot of people build up what they think sex will be like in their heads for the first time, and find that it is different than the fantasy that they had built it up to be.
It doesnt mean that sex will never be great, you just have to learn and become more experienced as you go on in your relationships.
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