homosexual but want to become straight,get married and have

This is a continuation of my last post to Vijay, who i tjink started this thread. First of all i want to say there is one The Creator-God. That Creator-God speaks through Jesus (means 'God Saves') Jesus is the Expression of The great Merciful helpful Goodness and kindness of The Creator-God. Satan fooled Adam into thinking The Creator-God was keeping something Good from Adam. This idea was (is) a lie. Adam had been warned not to eat (have his spiritual relationship with The Creator-God) through the tree of knowledge of Good and evil) which is Satan. (Our enemy). However, satan was subtle and Adam ate from it. Satan is a lie. The father of all lies and liars. Even the name of his tree is a lie. Adam already knew all trutb and good because he knew Jesus who is all the Good that exists. The only thing Adam (and we his decendents) got ftom that tree was evil. Adam no longer trusted God or believed God loved Adam.(we in the very core of our being do not believe God the Creator is kind or wanting us. We think God is against us because we do wrong and that the only way we can please God is for us to learn how to stop doing wrong and stop being wrong and tl do right. But the trutb is we are wrong and no matter how much we want to be right we can not be right. We can never be right enough

Cont We can not be enough right for it to make up for the past wrong we have done. The good news is The Creator-God knows we humans are not able or capable of stoping our wrong behavior so before the.pronlem started The Creator-God. And Jesus who were neither of them.ever created and who each existed from before Time was created by them acting together had decided to have the idea of Jesus as a human being and having no sin oc his own And having never been 'Separated' from The Creator-God would save all humans who would repent of their belief that The Creator-God was keeping any Goodness from them, or their unbelief in God's love for them expressed to us through The Person Jesus. This is easy to understand. Jesus died so you and I and anyone willing to believe Jesus is the Savior who solves the problem of sin (what separates them from The Creator-God and the goodness that comes from That Creator-God. ) Dear Jesus. I accept that you did not sin. I did sin. J can not stop beinv a sinner but you fixed that problem for me. I do not have to fix it. I can trust you that you have fixed it for me. I do trust you. I accept you as my savior. You died to show how much you love me. Help me to undersrand this and appreciate you for Saving me. Amen. I praise you and thank you Jesus for taking away this burden from me of being responsible for it and having to solve a problem i can not solve. That problem is my human nature that is broken. So i find that no matter how mucb I desire to be Good as you are that i can not. You died to take away from me the need for me to be right in order for you to consider me right, which i find I can not do. I can not be that right. You made it easy. All i need to do is to accept the idea that thinking about you and your goodness and How kinx and wonderful you are oh, God as shown to us througb Jesus and how their is mutual humility between You the Creator-God and You Jesus duch as the two of you are one or as one So that the Creator-God appreciates that you humbly died and Jesus apprseciates you and every created being who accepts Jesus as their Savior. And you appreciate all who believe JeSus is the Savior because that is what will allow each human who humbly accepts the salvation of Jesus to be considered right in their nature and not be separated from you but saved from eternal separation from You The Creator-God and from Jesus their savior. This gives us a feeling in our hearts and minds of being forgiven and that you God in your kindness have solved everything through Jesus and that relieves us of a great burden of needing to stop being a sinner or doing sinful (wrong) things in order to feel loved. Then this idea helps us a lot. We can dpend our time and efforts thanking and worshipping you Jesus. When we do that we are not being separated from God. We are with God. Then our thoughts and actions are right ones. You caused it and You did it and ghen it is right for you to get the credit and praise for a job well done. Amen.. More to come Vijay. Soon.

Yall my think it is fine to be gay but it is a sin I am a Christan and I want to help gay people become strait

Whats yr email

Hi guest
Sexuality is not a choice and being gay is not a sin and your offer to help people become strait is a lie or sin.
Anyone that is LGBT is not a sinner and there is absolutely nothing wrong with them the only sin is that people use their religion to justify their acts of cruelty towards people that are gay. If your a Christian how is discrimination, hatred and judging others based on misguided beliefs acceptable. The only sin is that you actually think you or yall have the right to treat innocent people with such cruelty as long as you hide behind your religion to justify these disgusting behaviours. Which are comparable to the actions of any group or organization that thrives on promoting hatred and discriminating against others for various idiotic beliefs.
If you are looking for the worst kind of sinner to help start right at your own home have a gay person over so you can learn from them how to treat people with respect and they maybe can help you understand that people should not be targeted but they should be accepted as they are. They are amazing people that are strong enough to look past the hatred and discrimination that is often directed towards them by people like you and they don't hold it against you they forgive and feel sorry for you as do I.
Respect, acceptance and understanding is it really that hard to offer this unconditionally.

yes my mean ass GF just called me a bad GF so now im becoming STRAIGHT so hmu .

Hi u can if u r not completely oriented

Hi I am 13 and I feel feelings towards other men. I want to be straight and be like normal person. Please if their is anyone out there who can help. I'm desperate.

Hi Guest
There is a chance that your feelings towards guys could be curiosity and many guys your age experiment in same sex relationships. Do you find you have any attraction towards girls or is it only guys that you have feelings for. Part of puberty is discovering your sexuality and it is something that can't be changed it can be difficult to come to terms with being gay but there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. It may help you to work on just accepting yourself the way you are your friends like you because of who you are and your family loves and supports you as always and your sexuality shouldn't change any of that. If you don't mind saying in a post what is it about being gay that you are so worried about and why do you feel you need to try and change? Have you told any of your friends or family about the feelings you have? If you are more comfortable chatting in private you can join steady health and after a few posts you can talk to people in private. Would you be comfortable talking with your school counselor about this or are there any LGBT services where you live that you could maybe talk to a counselor there. There honestly is no need for you to try to be anything other than who you are and if you are gay pretending to be straight won't help. There is help available here or in your community but you don't need help to change just some help to become comfortable with your sexuality is needed.

Hey. I am in the exact Same boat as you... feel as though I wrote your blog.

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I'm intrigued...can I speak to you more about this? I feel that I have fallen in love for the first time at 29 y/o... with another man. Always wanted to end up with women though...I'm very torn!

Going through same issue man..Would like to be in touch with u

There is a great easy read book called "Gay Awareness" by Landon Schott. There is NO such thing as a gay gene. Listen to Milo Yiannoppoulos on YouTube " Milo Yiannoppoulos on homosexuality." Also his video with boy George. He is openly gay and doesn't want to be says it's not a good, fun lifestyle and he desires children

Vijay, don't let anyone define you. If you desire to be straight, that is YOUR decision. Since when do others get to make up the rules for your life. Just because you identified as a homosexual at some point in your life doesn't mean that's who you are today. People change. Folks are wrong that think once you're gay, you're always gay. You will have to at some point deal with your homosexual feelings. If anyone challenges You, remember who you are and how YOU feel. It's YOUR life. Don't let others make up the rules for how it should go. I wish you courage and all the best.

T.A.

Hi don't let anyone define you. If you desire to be straight, that is YOUR decision. Since when do others get to make up the rules for your life. Just because you identified as a homosexual at some point in your life doesn't mean that's who you are today. People change. Folks are wrong that think once you're gay, you're always gay. You will have to at some point deal with your homosexual feelings. If anyone challenges You, remember who you are and how YOU feel. It's YOUR life. Don't let others make up the rules for how it should go. I wish you courage and all the best.

T.A.