was a straight man but now gay thoughts seem nice .anybody?

I believe that if you think of such thoughts and think of them as "normal" and "good" or even "acceptable" your body and mind will believe it and once you go too far, you cant go back..

wat my advice would be.. (this maybe weird, but i dont know how else to change thoughts) .. when you think these thoughts, think of them as "dirty" (and i mean disease dirty, not sexy dirty) and pinch yourself when they come into your head.. then if they come into your head remember the pain u felt and associate the pain with gay thoughts, and the "filthy disguisting disease" but remember its the thoughts that are disguisting and you have to rid them..

men may not be filthy and may even be cleaner than women!, but if you believe that by touching them, you will get infections and ...(think of the most disguisting thoughts you could have)..

that should keep you straight..., unless you want to be homosexual ofcoarse, or refuse to believe that man is unclean.



this post seems very old fashioned and against homosexuality...
but it isnt really.. its just to keep straight people on the straight and narrow..

dont be offended by this, its just a mental way of thinking that i believe, and no one can prove that im wrong or right... its just my theory...
but if you have a fear of becoming homosexual try it..

think back when it was considered evil and discuisting to be gay...

now think of the ammount of homosexual people today..

i believe that because of so much publication, and even popularity, of homosexuality people have left a message in their brain saying that its normal to be gay and homosexual acts are even more exciting and new than hetrosexual acts... (some people even achieve better orgasms while masterbating to homosexual thoughts, than hetro...)

now i will say again, that these are just my theories....


but i guess in our world today, bisexual it the thing to be...

i dont have a problem with gay people at all.. but if one of your main goals in life is to have children, and your homosexual, you are f*ck*d..


please read this, and post your oppinions.. they really do matter..

gay couples can still have children--i didn't totally miss the point of this post, but this one thing just stood out to me...

males can adopt a child or have a female friend have them a child
and /or
with myself being a lesbian, I plan to have one of my very good male friends have sex with me...my girlfriend wants to adopt a child...

just a thought

I also believe that you can only SUPPRESS homosexual feelings...once you realize that you are gay/bi, you can never be truly straight again...

but again that is an opinion...

topics like these are really about opinion...there is no medical proof on how to stop becoming gay...

with that post are you saying that i am supressing these homosexual thoughts

Well, I suppose. It's really a general statement and can be applied to you, but naybe not so much.

I know that's confusing...it confused me to type it.

I believe though, that you can "forget" about these sort of feelings, but they are always gonna be there in the back of your mind.

It's really hard to explain in writing. I do so much better face to face with people. Lol.

it would be good to talk to you via email just you and i if thats okay and ur alright with thta, about what i am going through

I'm fine with that, but I'm not really sure how to give you my e-mail address, because they're not allowed on here.

you could live with these thoughts, but i still think you could beat them out of your head..

i can...

Ok, I figured out how you can get my email address. What you do is go to SEARCH and put in healthfreak88 in the SEARCH FOR AN AUTHOR box. It will bring up all of my posts. Click on my name and it will bring up my profile. You will find my email address here. When you email me title it something that lets me know it's you because sometimes I just delete stuff if it doesn't look like it's important.

listen dude ...maybe your going thorough some hormonal phase or something or maybe your bi-sexual but your only realised it now or maybe your adventurous :D

yea. i no longer care about which sex i like..

i just consider myself bi.. or "greedy" lol

loads of people i know are gay or bi, so its not a problem..

its actually better than being straight..

Well...i think you should try to stay straight. sometimes you are going through a hormonal phase where many men are extremely aroused. over the smallest actions and all. i suggest you sit down and really think of what you want to do. if you want to explore...then take baby steps. because i agree with one of the top bloggers you might go too far and cant come back. that is all im saying...because i too use to feel the same way so i know exactly what you are talking about.

[To asker]Dude. Homosexuality is what you are born with, and this might be a case of bisexuality too. Just because you have sex with women doesn't mean you are straight. You can live a life with bisexuality.



And The guy I quoted, just because you try to assosiate pain with something, doesn't mean it will go away.

That is like thinking, If I punch myself everytime I think about eating, I will never want to eat again.

or

If I pinch myself everytime I think about breathing, I will never want to breathe again.

Or, something less drastic

If I hit myself everytime I think about sports, I will never want to think about sports again.



Anyways, Homosexuality is a part of your personality, sort of like patience, or kindness, etc.

because your sexuality can affect things past your sex life. For me, It made me incredibly popular with the girls.



Thoughts and actions don't affect this. By placing straight-hetero thoughts into every child, you will produce a far less number of open gays, and a far increase in in-closet gays and suicides and depression.



Although I (and every other child) never experienced sexual thoughts in elementary school, (except for sexually abused children) I like to have labeled myself as a future homosexual due to the fact that I STILL hanged out with girls back then, I didn't play sports (except for soccer) and I didn't hang out with guys.

i am sure i am 100% gay but i am too embarased to tell anyone and my family is always asking about me and if i have girlfriends i really want to become straight but it just doesnt work! canu help?

 i totally agree with you, for me it is really weird that you think this way and to read this because i've been doing this for the last two years but without hearing this from anybody though my problem wasnt the same. my problem began when people start saying i was gay or look gay, when i hang out with my friends people always though me and any random girl friend were couple but  my thoughts were far from that. i've always concidered my self as asexual because i never like people by watching them boy or girl i never care how hot someone was. the point is that since i get all this attention from people thinking i was gay i kind of like it and started acting even gayer and then i find my self looking girl and stuffs like that but i hate it i hate what people made me become so i stared this practice and also i try to focus on work or sports and i try my best to be who i was before, im still trying sometimes i think i'm done but then i find my self watching girls or acting in a gay way again, but ill keep trying and i know someday ill be normal again