hooded clitoris, do I need to have it cut down?

Just softly stroke (not rub) the hood for as long as it takes. Eventualy your beautiful clit will expose itself in utter glory.

I would be pleased to refer you to proper psychiatric care.

HI, Hope I can help. I recently met a new partner who has a beautiful mind, a sexy body (to me anyways) and a heavily hooded clit. Our lovemaking is beautiful, and we do not focus on acheiving orgasm, but rather in giving each other love and pleasure. I am getting older myself, and find i no longer perform exactly as i did when younger, so there are time when i cannot finish either, and psychologically this is not a problem for either of us. we have both decided to forgoe the orgasm as the "acheivment" and instead are focused on the journey itself...