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Massaging or caressing your breasts, as lovely as those sensations might be, are only one part of the overall sensory "picture" that can lead you to orgasm. Your mind puts together all the things you can make your body feel, with the thoughts you are having at the same time. In other words, as you caress yourself, you might close your eyes and imagine someone special lying close to you, feeling the warmth of them against you -- their hands doing to you what your hands are doing.
So much goes into the delicate dance we do with ourselves to achieve an orgasm. Don't exclude the fantasies and loving desires as you explore the physical sensations you can give yourself.
Others here have specific suggestions as to what you might do with your breasts and nipples, but remember that they are not separate from you. The rest of your body (your belly, your armpits, your neck, the skin on your arms, your vaginal juices or your saliva on your fingertips as you fondle, pinch, squeeze or tug at your nipples) all play a part. Here's a bit of fact to consider: Nature makes it so that a baby nursing at your nipples triggers sensations deep inside you that actually cause your womb to draw upwards, back into it's pre-birth position. The fact that this is sexually pleasurable is just "icing on the cake". So enjoy what your body can do this way. Try exploring every sensation you can imagine, and keep at it. It's a life-long learning experience!
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It's reasonable to point out that males have many the same nerve endings in their nipples and many guys nipple play / caressing / suckling to be VERY arousing. And for some males it IS possible to orgasm from nipple and breast stimulation alone.* (* please see my post elsewhere here about what actually goes into an orgasm)
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I have no idea if everyone can teach themselves to do so if they aren’t currently capable, but many can and have, if it doesn’t already occur naturally for them.
I would suggest educating yourself on a topic before shooting down another person’s desires based solely upon your own experiences and/or limited knowledge.
I’d that isn’t your problem, perhaps it’s that you disapprove of a 13 year old broaching this topic. If this is the case, please keep your narrow minded and ultra-conservative comments to yourself. Curiosity about sexuality is completely normal and when someone (especially a young person) has the courage to speak up about this curiosity, it should be met with an openness to hear them and help to educate them, even if you don’t agree with what they’re asking (which you must be ok with this topic, because you were obviously reading the thread if you responded to her), not shaming them.
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