Hi- I had anal cancer and was told it was most likely caused by HVP transmission. I am a mother of a young son and am concern that if I also have this virus orally I could pass it on to my son by kissing him or eating and drinking from the same dishes, utensils. I have been told that the strains of HPV that cause cancer do not present as typical warts, so I am afraid that I could have it orally and not know it. Please respond