Hi,
I have a great concern about my husband, he keeps playing and scratching with his package (balls), mostly caressing his self n his testis, ALL the time as soon as we are alone at home. he has formed this habit since around a year. This really puts me off as its unhealthy & unholy to keep touching your private part ALL the time. It really puts me off n I get annoyed seeing that. Also, he NEVER initiates a sexual relation ever and even when I do its only upto hugging & kissing. He never takes it all the way till intercourse. Even if that happens he cant keep a hard on for a long time...he doesn't make much effort to arouse me and expects to insert as soon as he gets a hard on...and that lasts hardly for few seconds...his penis grows small very fast even when he is inside me sometimes, the process is never complete n he can never satisfy me. He is quite lazy n does not even know the right procedure of intercourse. He is 33 n I am 31 and his disinterest & this kind of sick behavior is causing a drift in our married life. I want to concieve soon but he is least interested and escapes from this topic whenever I try to discuss it with him openly. He is not ready to accept this fact that may be he has a problem and should see a Doctor SOON. He says I am not hot enough, though i do not think so as I am quiet attractive & very hot myself. Please help me as I cant take this disgusting behavior and this disinterest otherwise. I know about Viagra but he has a G6PD deficiciency & also has cholestrol & blood pressure slightly on the higher side. I dont know what to do as I cant discuss this embarrassing behavior with anyone else but I cant even take this drift as its not only been 2 years since we got married, and for month together we dont end up having any relationship...I am really repenting for marrying such a man. Also, does it have any connection of him being a Parsi as I have heard that many Parsi men have this genetic disorder? Please help, I will be highly obliged as its the question of my life & happiness...
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my first marrage was much the same but my husband was 14 years older than me but didnt have the mind or emotions of an adult. i married him as i had low self esteam ant overweight he was the only person to have any interest in me. we were married for 7 years and had no sex life. he watched porn and had porn mags but when it came to the actual act he was much the same i had to initiate it and was always turned down. he knew from the start i wanted children but after 7 years he admitted he didnt want children and thought id change my mind. so with that and a few other things he did i decided to devorce him he was not going to get help so thats what i did. now i have a great new husband and a baby girl, so the only person that can make you happy is you. your the only one that can decide to stay and be unhappy or to leave and make your own happiness.
take care.
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