Okay, This may sound weird. I really don't know if it will or not. I am gay. But I want to have a girlfriend, and I want to have kids by having sex and not adopting or having someone do it for me. I know I am not bi, but I really want to have a loving wife. You don't need to get a boner when you love someone, right? But the thing is. Is it still possible to have sex and cum if I am gay and doing it to a wife? Would it still allow her to have a child? If not, Can someone give me tips on how I can become hard and still have sex to this so-called wife? I am...well under 20 and I want to have my life figured out before I try something stupid. Maybe listen to Gay porn through headphones might work?...I just really want to have kids and be with a Wife and not a husband, I have nothing against having a husband I just think it is not right for me...