I am 35 and happily married to my wife of 10 years who is 37. We dont have kids. We never said we didnt want kids. We both love children and as far as we know are both fertile. All of a sudden, I am having terrible regret for not having kids. Kids just were not a priority early on and now, oh c**p, its too late. She is fine either way, really. This regret has totally consumed my life recently. Can I get over this or will I live with regret the rest of my life? Please give me input.
Loading...
It is not to late to hve a healthy baby, my sister who is 39 just gave birth to a healthy baby boy on 01/02/08. She was considered a higher risk because of her age, which meant more visits to the O.B. but everthing went along just great. My new nephew Carson is now a very healthy 13lb 4 oz baby, mom and dad are doing just great and loving EVERY MINUTE of it.
Loading...
I am 46 and I didn't want kids most of my adult life, I didn't meet my partner till I was 35, but we were both unemployed then so it took us a while to build some financial security together. I didn't crave kids until around 44years old when it started dawning on me what I was missing as girlfriends went off and had children - they were around 10 years younger than me. Then I started regretting not taking a different road and having children - I definitely feel like I missed out on something profound. However, if I did have children I might be feeling like I was missing out on something else - travel, freedoms etc. That's life...there are no guarantees. Even if you had children you might still be lonely in old age - have you seen how some people treat their parents ? From what I've seen having children is no insurance against anything. Still, I wish I could have another life and this time have children in it. I wish I had wanted them more - but I didn't. I accept that is the way it was for me. Hindsight - you can't beat it.
Loading...
she is only 37 years old still she can have kids my sister just have one resently the age of 37
Loading...