So I just found this forum on google...
I'm 22 and I've never cum having sex. With a condom I don't feel a goddamn thing, ever. Without one its awesome, but I've still never cum. I cum fine and pretty fast if I jerk off. But when I'm having sex, without a rubber, its like i get to the point where I just can't help like.. moaning? cause it feels good in my penis, even makes my legs feel weak. But I never get anywhere close to going over the edge. I just stay there. Which isnt so bad!! But i wanna feel an orgasm having sex. Tips anyone??
I'm 22 and I've never cum having sex. With a condom I don't feel a goddamn thing, ever. Without one its awesome, but I've still never cum. I cum fine and pretty fast if I jerk off. But when I'm having sex, without a rubber, its like i get to the point where I just can't help like.. moaning? cause it feels good in my penis, even makes my legs feel weak. But I never get anywhere close to going over the edge. I just stay there. Which isnt so bad!! But i wanna feel an orgasm having sex. Tips anyone??
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Yes, you can back off on masturbating as much, so that you have more semen stored up. That is likely to make you come or climax more easily.
Most guys assume that ejauculation and orgasm are the same thing.
You may be experiencing orgasms without ejaculating.
But try not masturbating as much.
However, you will want to use protection EVERY time you have intercourse. You don't want to pass something to your partner, and vice versa. Assuming you're having intercourse with a woman, you don't want to start a pregnancy either.
The thrill you get from sex without a condom is not worth the continual responsibility of paying for a new child for the next 20 years.
Most guys assume that ejauculation and orgasm are the same thing.
You may be experiencing orgasms without ejaculating.
But try not masturbating as much.
However, you will want to use protection EVERY time you have intercourse. You don't want to pass something to your partner, and vice versa. Assuming you're having intercourse with a woman, you don't want to start a pregnancy either.
The thrill you get from sex without a condom is not worth the continual responsibility of paying for a new child for the next 20 years.
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I dont jerk it that much! I went 2 weeks without feeling a thing awhile back because I was in hospital, and next time I was with my gf, same deal.
I know the difference between cumming and orgasm. That's not it. I don't get the sensitivity or anything that comes after. I pretty much go until one of us gets tired...
And don't give me the safe sex speech. Beside the fact i'm with a girl I know who's on bc too, there is No feeling with one. Kids, be safe, but don't let anyone tell you it's no better without one!
I even went to a doc once. He pretty much gave me a funny look and said try harder.
Really, hasn't this happened to anyone else?
I know the difference between cumming and orgasm. That's not it. I don't get the sensitivity or anything that comes after. I pretty much go until one of us gets tired...
And don't give me the safe sex speech. Beside the fact i'm with a girl I know who's on bc too, there is No feeling with one. Kids, be safe, but don't let anyone tell you it's no better without one!
I even went to a doc once. He pretty much gave me a funny look and said try harder.
Really, hasn't this happened to anyone else?
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OK, I won't give you the safe sex speech. (That was mainly for others who are reading here afterwards...)
I can't say as I've had the lack of feeling you describe, but after an hour or so, my partner and I have called it quits a couple of times... til tomorrow or the next day. It varies.
I'm surprised that a doctor would shrug and just tell you to "try harder". I wonder what he meant by that?
Anyone else got any ideas?
I can't say as I've had the lack of feeling you describe, but after an hour or so, my partner and I have called it quits a couple of times... til tomorrow or the next day. It varies.
I'm surprised that a doctor would shrug and just tell you to "try harder". I wonder what he meant by that?
Anyone else got any ideas?
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