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I'm a gay guy and been in a steady relationship for almost 9 years. I had hemorrhoidectomy 3 months ago and have not had anal intercourse for almost 4 months. My partner has been VERY patient with me. However, after about 2 months we tried the deed but he could not even get the tip of his d**k in, not to mention the pain I felt.
I asked my doctor about it and he told me to practice with an anal dilator (butt plug) to try and work through the scar tissue but it's painful as hell! I'm having thoughts of him doing something down there whilst I was in surgery. I don't always have much time to practice with the butt plug as we have 2 kids, I work full time, study part time and also considering the kids extra mural activities.
I also think that my surgeon butchered me because the excess skin is worse than before I had hemorrhoids. This really took a knock on my self esteem and even considering cosmetic surgery to have the skin tags removed.
But as for our sexual lives, it's literally come down to 69 only.
Anyone had or have such a scenario or perhaps have advice as to what I can do to get back to our normal sex life?
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