i don't know what it is or whats wrong w/ me... but i really dont like sex for some reason.. the only reason i do it is because im in a committed relationship w/ my bf of 3 years, we have a baby, and it would be sorta weird not to... but i've always felt like this about it, and have even told my bf but i want to make him happy... i CANT cum unless i mess w/ myself while having sex, but i hardly do that, i dont like to. i just want to be normal.
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I have always blamed men for not being able to satisfy their women. Maybe this is wrong, maybe there are women who really can’t have an orgasm during sex, but I somehow refuse to believe that. Maybe, if the problem is mental, like not being able to relax, or trust the guy or something like that but otherwise… I am sure there must be a way! You say you can come if you touch yourself. Why can’t your man touch you then while having sex. He could for example come from behind, if you were both lying on the side. From this position, he may penetrate into you with his penis, and play with your clitoris with his hand, and he could even kiss you as well this way. Or, he could do the same thing if you were lying on your stomachs, come from behind, put his hand under you and stimulate your clitoris while being in you. All it takes is a little trouble until you realize what suits you, then…..it’s joy!!!!!
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well it takes quite a bit of work for me to cum even if i'm touching myself.. we've tried everything for about 3 years and still nothing.. i think it's just me, but it could be him to i dont know our sex isnt mind blowing and he's the only person ive ever been w/. it's embarrassing but it only lasts less then 15 min and i dont have any intrest in that. im really not saticfied, i can feel it but it doesnt really feel good i dont know what all the fuss is about lol. but he knows i cant cum so why bother?
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Ur not the only one. Ive read alot of comments from ppl with the same problem cuz im 1 of them..I thought I was the only 1 til I found this site & believe it or not tgere are men with the same problem! Sex is over rated if u ask me. Starting 2 thnk im asexual 2 tell u the truth.
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Are you sure of your sexuality? And are you open minded? The reason I ask is bc you say he is the only one you've been with,and perhaps you have a different preference then men, that would certainly be something to think about, if you find your unsure but maybe want to find out then talk to your man, and suggest a 3 way with him, or even see how he feels about you experimenting with a friend of sorts, for all you know maybe he would get into it, besides in this day and age things such as these are not seen as weird as they once were, if you are positive you are completely strait then may I suggest getting a couple toys, make sure they are different, they don't have to be "cool" looking etc. But get one that vibrated, a plain one, and maybe another type,there are many different styles as well as oils out their, just play around wether its by yourself or with your man, if anything to find your preference. Hope I helped and hope you get some fun :)
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