ok so i havent had sex in about 2 months after we broke up she got tested she was clean so am i i got tested about 2 days ago i noticed a swelling on the head of my penis.it has about half swelled the head and the (lets call it the ring around the head the skin) *i am circumcised* is swollen all around as well i have no life insurance until i leave for boot camp in the army. so what should i do from looking it up ad reading i see a very small scab so i think its a spider bite but i wanted yall to give me some imput please :$