I am in my thirties and have never had a orgasm with a man. I can through masterbation, but the fantasies have to be very full on, multiply men etc. It is really troubling me, as I have been with my present partner for almost 10 years and we are deeply attached. However I feel I can't talk to him about it because I have faked all this time. I have tried to have the same fantasies during sex together and he is a considerate lover. I simply never get there and eventually become bored. From reading other peoples messages, there seems to be no simply solution, but it is increasingly upsetting me, I want to have a real bond together. Is there anything I can do? Please help!
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Hardly helpful, and as I mentioned I have had a number of lovers and none of them were able to do the trick. I think it is less about them and more about me.
If anyone else has HELPFUL advice, I would appreciate it. Thank you
If anyone else has HELPFUL advice, I would appreciate it. Thank you
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Its likely that after 10 years you have just excepted that your not going to orgasm through sex, now this is going to be hard on him...since your going to have to tell him you've been faking it...in a way where you say you enjoy having sex with him but can't really enjoy it.
Why do I have to tell him... because this helps both of you start a fresh sex life to help better understand each other like telling him you can orgasm by masturbating and showing him and maybe let him do it for you.
Most of the time masturbating to an orgasm before sex or after is all that is needed to make sex more enjoyable and have an orgasm.
Why do I have to tell him... because this helps both of you start a fresh sex life to help better understand each other like telling him you can orgasm by masturbating and showing him and maybe let him do it for you.
Most of the time masturbating to an orgasm before sex or after is all that is needed to make sex more enjoyable and have an orgasm.
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