I have no breasts and I'm in my twenties. Could something be wrong with me?

You're not listening to the right ones. I find them irresistible.

Yes. Something may be wrong with you. Have you tried iodine?

I am a man i prefer women with small boobs.

To the lady of 40, who posted a few days ago:

Oh, 40 is not too late to get good about it. :o)

Yes, one can certainly think of breasts like yours as the ultimate and best of the best and so on - not just "doesn't matter, cause I love you"-ish!

But if I may be a bit philosophical about the "not feeling like a woman" thing, using an analogy I would say, there could be three reasons for not hearing the music:
1) The music could simply not be playing.
2) The music is playing, but some other noise is drowning it out, maybe you are vacuum cleaning or something ;o)
3) The music is playing, but you are expecting something else from it, so you don't acknowledge it as music. You know, like: "Oh, but isn't music supposed to have drum too? So this can't be it!"

Translating back to your point:
Re. 1) That is not the case, you obvious ARE a woman, so I think we can discard that.
Re. 2) That is definitely a possibility. If you have always been blocking out that feeling that you really want, by for example screaming inside your own head, that it is all wrong and it could never be right when you don't have as much breast mass as most other women. Then "the feeling" might have been there all the time, but you never gave in to it, and the noise of the thoughts drowned it out?
Re. 3) This could also be. I.e. that you indeed are (and feel) very feminine, but you have a particularly strong idea about how that should feel, or abot what others are feeling ... so you determine: "Oh, this can't be it!"
For example, even the concerns you describe about your breasts ARE feminine! Whether you take the slightly boring version: "Oh, are my breasts the right weight, according to the tables in the ladies' magazines? No, oh horror!" or it is more like the really beautiful version: "Oh, could my breasts ever really express the love and warmth, I would want them to? Could they ever really be satisfactory?"
... I mean, no matter which version you would say is closest to what you've been thinking, that is definitely womanly ;o) But then again, it does not fit with the pre-conceived idea of what "feeling like a woman" should be like?

Anyway, the best thing is also to feel like a human being mst of the time :o) I don't walk around "feeling like a man" all the time, either. That would just be a concept. I get that feeling sometimes, but it mostly somehow inspired by being confronted with the opposite - women!

That could be everything from seeing women get very much into something that does not really mean anything to me - so I notice: "O, that's probably because I am a man" ;o) And of course to the most beautiful: If something I did or thought about or said or whatever, did something to a woman that she appreciated, because she wouldn't have thought of that herself or couldn't do that to herself.

And I suppose it would be the same for you, about "feeling like a woman" - if you have some direct access to something men wouldnt have thought of themselves in a million years, and can take them there ... or if you have a lot of warmth hidden inside of you, that you can influence your surroundings with that, then I think you can't help feeling successful as a woman?

The thing about womanly "body feelings" - there are two things that stick out. I think women have more of a tendency to "connect things", and that also goes for skin and spirit (which "we" would see as direct opposite, but "you" would want to be combined.) It's probably good both viewpoints are represented, but yours is indeed interesting - and you can also make us feel that oneness sometimes.

The other thing about it is that is very practical that you don't have to go around, dramatically advertising the good stuff you may have inside of you as a woman. It really emanates through your whole body - you know, with the softer, smoother lines, the fairer complexion, your fine fingers and toes, your beautiful check bones, the sensitive corners of your mouth etc. etc. All that signals to us, that there may be great gain in getting close to you.

Your breasts ... well like you see, I already described you as very female without even mentioning them! You don't become more female relative to to how large your breasts are. They are more like your whole combined likeableness, skin & spirit, copied twice more, and sitting right there, humming and saying a lot of things you aren't even aware of yourself, probably ;o)

Breasts are really wonderful, because it is like, though them one can aaaalmost catch and feel that otherwise elusive substance inside you.

Ok, if it is important to be able to hide ones face between two breasts, I would recommend the guy looks for someone else ;o) But if he likes the exceptional grace and delicacy the nipples and area around have on breasts like yours, and thinks it is out of this world that so much female force can be contained in so little, and loves the feeling that it can all be under his palm, and even if you are lying on your back and he is kissing you or something, that he can easily find them in their usual place (and doesn't have scoop them up from under the armpits, like he would have to with 40 year old large breasts ;o)) ... if he thinks that is much nicer, then he wouldn't be all that interested in other breasts, after having known yours ;o)

So yeah, I think the guy you replied to, was very right. Those who have gotten close to breasts like yours, think they are the best. Maybe someone else thinks some others are the best - one must almost hope, because there are not that many like you (although judging from the length of this thread, there are quite a few).

But think about my example at the top about hearing or not hearing the music. Maybe it is nothing, but I think there is a point. And honestly, I have had breasts of your class under my palm, and am absolutely sure they have felt blissful. So I am sure yours can too. A woman's breasts are really wonderful things - and I would argue, ones like yours are top of the pops. Probably even now, at 40, some of those you used to be envious of, might like to switch with you if that were possible ;o)

No, well I would hope they feel good about theirs too, but naturally someone like you will always be my special hero. Absolutely no reason to feel inadequate - I bet it is just some old thoughts from teenhood still hovering around that makes you paralyzed about it: Oh, everybody has "more", so they must right and I must be wrong? But if you really dived into comparing your own to a concrete pair of large ones, and compared properly: gracefulnes of areola/nipples, the "arch" seen in profile, their position (i.e. yours much higher), and how they do a symphony with eyes and mouth and other expressive features ... could you really say, that other lady's breasts were nicer than yours, I wonder?

I doubt it, but if it is too hard to see beauty in oneself, perhaps you can compare someone who is somewhat like you, to someone with more average or large breasts and see who comes out on top ... or of course, you could just skip comparing at all ;o)

Sorry about the long rant, but I hope some of it made sense. B-)

I never grew, I went to many special doctors I went to a boob doctor who said They couldn't work out why I never grew and never would. I had no breast tissue at all and I also had inverted nipples. I saw a naturopath who tried to balance my hormones to create breasts for me, all this did was make me gain lots of weight everywhere except my chest. Eventually I got a boob job and it was the best thing I ever did. I used to get jealous of men with manboobs as I wasn't even an aaa bra size. I couldn't wear a bra as I had nothing there.

Dear "40"
I kept thinking about your post. Maybe because you mention the different between "don't mind" and "actually find them sexy".
A long time ago, a woman wrote exactly that in a way that she made me feel I understood something deep about women, that filled me with warmth. That was one of the reasons I believe someone can get lucky and say something that makes things click for persons unknown at the other end.
I was also struck by the irony of you saying almost exactly what I associate with "essentially woman" - and then you went on to say that you didn't feel like one.
Hoping that could perhaps say a magic word or two, I already answered you at length - but I made one mistake: In my (excellent) point that if you could compare your own breasts dispasionately (without the melt-down that "oh, I have less than everybody"), that then you would most likely find your own or some of your own kind actually more beautiful than the "ordinary" ones, I just said you ought to do that ;o) But if you have an old habit of getting downcast about exactly that, and perhaps couldn't even find someone like yourself to compare with, that might not have been such a bright idea on my part.
I even have some excellent links, and I found a few more yesterday, so I will prepare them for you (and however many other ladies are following this thread ... did you notice the one you answered was actually 5 years old?) ;o)
But anyway, I hope it is allowed to post links, and that you and some of the ladies would check them out and say what you think. Coming up soon.
Regards
Wise man (sorry about pompous titles, I just picked when I first commented on this site - but I am older than you, actually ;o))

Dear "40" and breast size colleagues,

So, hereby the promised links that prove that very light-weight breasts are actually often more fascinating and beautiful than the more average ones. And I hope you ladies will all agree. I think is sometimes easier to be objective when it is someone else you compare, because it is easy to be too self-critical.

But once you've got a sense that someone somewhat like yourself could be the one who makes one forget all the others, then you may be a little more unafraid to look in the mirror and go; "Hey, maybe mine are pretty nice too, after all."

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what kind of doctor did you see?

I love small boobs iam a male don't stress it enjoy it ask a big breast girl thay tell you not all its seems

please let us know how the pills work for you!!! I would like to try something similar but Im not sure if it'll work or not. I'd greatly appreciate your review of the pills. good luck! xoxo

Or you can fins a nice guy like myself who actually wants a small or flat chested woman

For all of you who feel so underrated or under endowed, I think I've found something for you. I'm watching the Boston Marathon on TV and they are following the elite women's group. I'm in heaven!!! Looking at all those scantily clad girls, shiny with sweat, with long legs and NO BOOBS.

There you go girls, get out your running shoes, you can be in the marathon. There is your calling.

My d of girls! I love girls with no boobs and long legs!

Where so u find female hormones?

Make sue you wear a bra size close to the size of your breast, so that he doesn't think he getting bigger breast. If your breast is too small for him, he shouldn't have been with you in the first place. Also what about him!