I have no breasts and I'm in my twenties. Could something be wrong with me?

Today was my lucky day. I went grocery shopping and there was a line with a mother of two boys about 6 or 7 years old. She was wearing a nice tight T shirt that had no bumps showing at all. I scooted right over to that line. She had a big load so I had a long time to read the writing on her shirt. Made my day!

Honey, you're only 14. Don't complain. You don't need breasts yet. You still have time.

I am 26 who unfortunately suffer the same problem, its all flat like I have to wear bras with big foams just to pretend that I have boobs, and freaks me out everyday of my life wondering if am I healthy or whatsoever, I never tried telling my problem to anyone and live with it, I am so ashamed. This fact is actually the reason why I'm still single, I'm afraid no man could ever love a woman without breast. Until now I don't know what to do.

First of all im sure you are a beautiful woman with a good heart. Your also around my age. There are many guys like myself who not only would accept having a flat chested girlfriend but also want one. I myself love a flat chested woman. That is defanitly not why you are single. Quite a few of my x's are flst as a board and wouldnt want it any other way. Just try not to fucus on it and be you. Focus on all the things that make you..you! Let your personality show. Jw... where in the world are you? I myself reside in the States. Dont worry that you dont have any breasts or that they are small.....a good man wont care about that anyway sweety.

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Yes, I fully understand how "hard to get" you must be for any man (who might actually think you are a knock-out). That could be a good thing, because let's face it, most relationship before your current age, don't really last anyway. And maybe you are the kind who would actually appreciate the guy doing a little extra to soften you up and make you feel comfortable about it all(?)
But just make sure you don't become a completely impenetrable fortress :o) So no one can get to you, and never really find out if your worries were even justified or not. You admit yourself that it is all something you have been thinking all on your own - so that means those thoughts never had a roper reality check, as it were.
I would say, it is probably wrong what you have been thinking. I'm of course heavily biased in your favour, because my own wife is like you - but I must certainly tell you, that does by no means look or feel like you have "no breasts".
I'm sure yours have all the feelings and abilities to be responsive to being liked and so on, like all the others do. If I tell you that that is actually the magic of breasts, not the amount of fat ... wouldn't it make sense then that someone could think it was extra magic that it was all there in so little? I.e. that rather than "something missing", yours would seem like "everything, more concentrated"?
At least was the idea that immediately struck me, when I first saw her.
Probably I cannot convince you just by a post on a website, that your breasts are full-fletched and fine and possibly (even likely) more beautifully shaped than the "ordinary" ones. But if I could just make you start doubting your doubts, so to speak, that would be wonderful. Would you consider moving from "I'm sure this must be wrong" to "I actually don't really know"?
I think that would make it much easier for someone to get close to you - and probably also gradually make you want to find out yourself.
Sure, maybe someone would prefer someone other than you - but that definitely does not mean some-other-one wouldn't prefer you to the others. Feel free to make it seem just a little bit easier for someone of the latter kind to get to you.
And I mean you wouldn't really die if someone didn't like your breasts (you already imagined that a hundred times over), but you would really start living in a whole new way, probably, if in fact they did.
And if you followed my advice above, you've already admitted that you don't really-really know, right? ;o)
No, I think it might well be someone's most beautiful evening ever, once that blouse of yours and the foamed bra and everything come off. I know no girls or women really on their won understand the why and how their breasts have such an impact, so that's okay if it doesn't make sense. That is something that should felt. But just regarding the beauty-side of it if you study some large breasts, and then your own in the mirror - without immediately going into a coma about the size, but compare properly - I think you just might have to notice and admit that your nipples are more delicate and immaculately shaped than they usually are on large breasts, and from side-view that your hinted curves are even more elegant and feminine.
So I cross my fingers that someone will eventually be able to make you feel comfortable enough to take the big leap ;o) You'll probably feel it more special and enjoyable than many other women. That way you could have your revenge for your hard times about it.

They must! My boyfriend says "boobs just get in the way anyway." So yayyy for no boobs!

Hi did the pills work on you?

I'm 14 and I am completely flat. Some of my friends tease me about it a LOT. I would say I have a nice curvy but very thin figure and I am quite tall for my age. My friends tell me that they are jealous of my figure and stuff which I think is the reason they tend to put me down about my lack of breasts. I keep growing taller all the time. Does this mean I haven't finished developing? Also my mum and all my grandmas have big breasts, does this mean anything?

Hi, your only 14 and still going through puberty yet and as everyone develops at different stages it could just be your breasts will be late developing, what age did you start going through puberty?

Lol I have no boobs too help everyone has boobs except me

I'm 15 and I'm an A cup, well I was, but I lost weight now my A cup bra doesn't fit :((( I get teased for it because I'm in year 10 at school

Now, don't be over-modest. Of course you have boobs, even though perhaps very light-weight ones.
By the way, what do you need help with? ;o)

No, some wise news: You don't get teased because a certain bra does not fit.
You get teased because you give off some reaction to being teased, that make those people feel "gotcha!" when they say those things.
Try to think about how you react, then you can probably see what I mean?
And then after that also think if you really need to have that reaction. I mean maybe everybody else's breasts show more through the blouse or something, but maybe yours are smoother or more delicately shaped or have more feelings or something like that. Then you really have the better deal, and don't need to let it get to you if someone says something without really knowing what they are talking about.
Good luck (if you gradually change your reaction, I guarantee you they will soon stop saying stupid stuff, because they would just make themselves feel stupid ... if not for that feeling of power over you that your current reaction makes them feel.)

WTF do you even mean "female hormones" do you have any idea what you're even talking about?

I feel u girl! Im almost 19, and flat like a stick! I can barely fill out an A cup... infact.. I CANT fill out an A cup, and that makes up for a very akward flappy line of just plain bra sticking out with no boob filling it out so it just kinda sits there and flaps under the shirt :(
But girl, dont bash urself for not having a boyfriend for that reason cause plenty of men prefers small (even very small) breasts ;) you will find a man who likes ur lil titties more than you will ever know ;)
But yeah i too fell super cosiuos of my small breast, the havnt grown since 6th grade and i used to feel so ashamed and wrong for not looking like the others...