I am a 14 year old male going through puberty but most importantly to this post I am a bisexual. Recently I have found myself being attracted to my best friend(also a guy) and I don't know what to do because I don't think he's gay or bi. what should I do not to confess this to him but to get over it and move on.
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Hi you are still only young speak to your friend honestly but try not to hurt yourself too much ....Good Luck....Bob
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Hi there. I honestly think it's hard to define your sexuality at your age. Some people certainly do know for sure what their preference is - but many, many others are confused still by everything going on with their body and emotions at the start of puberty. It's very normal for boys your age to feel attractions, and be interested sexually in their friends...puberty is a time of GREAT curiosity and interest in anything even remotely sexual.
I wouldn't be too quick to label yourself one way or the other. Time will tell for sure - and with that time you should accept what you are. But for now, focus on being a kid. Make decisions that will not harm you - but don't fight what you feel either (in my opinion). Safely explore and work your way through your feelings if that is what you want to do. You might be surprised to learn your friend is thinking the same things....
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