I'm very confused and i need a *yes* or *no* answer, so yesterday i wanted to try to insert a finger inside of me just to see how it would go, though i'm a virgin and i never had sex before; i'm saving it for the right one after marriage, and till now with my boyfriends they only tried to insert their fingers but it didn't last long cuz then i'de stop them due to the pain, and when i did yesterday it went all the way and i am very confused, cuz shouldn't be painful especially that i never had sex before, so my question is: am i a virgin? and why?