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Oh honey!:'( When I read your post, I wanted to cry! You're about the same age as my son & I would absolutey HATE him to be feeling this way.
Have you tried explaining to him how you feel? What about writing him a letter?
If you two are the only people in the house, I'm assuming that he's a single-parent (?) Sometimes, us single-parents take stuff out on our kids- we don't mean to, but it can be hard to put on a happy face 24/7.
However, he shouldn't be making you feel isolated & alone- that's not fair on you! You're going to be going through the full fire of adolesence soon & your dad needs to be there for you. Where's your mum? Have you any other family members you can talk to? What about someone at school, like a counsellor or mentor?
Please come back & talk to us here. I think the best thing you can do is write to your dad, if he refuses to speak to you- tell him how alone you feel & how much you treasured your relationship with him, but you feel that things have changed. He may be going through some stresses & strains that he thinks you won't understand or he doesn't want to worry you about something.
Good luck, sweetie.
{hugs}
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