8-|well heres the story, when i was 17 my boyfriend and i decided we both wanted to have a baby, its just something we both wanted. we started trying and i took preg tests but all were neg. my parents found the tests and said i could never see my boyfriend again or to be forced to take the depo shot. i hated the thought of them controling me but i did it for me and my boyfriend. we decided that when i turn 18 that we will try again for a baby and tell my parents that im not taking the shot. right now im 18 and currently coming off the depo shot and i want to start trying. right now i do have a job, but i dont have enough money to live on my own and my bf is going to the army in a month and i dont want my parents to be on my butt and hate me for not taking the shot. is it the right decison if i go ahead and get preg then in a couple months ill be finacially stable? please help me. i really need to know.