I'm eight days late, but we only did oral

Guest over a year ago

Hey, it was my frst time and my boyfriend(now ex) fingered me. He was very rude and it hurt a lot. Then I started giving him a blow job but i wasn't feeling ok after all the pain and gave up. So there was only pre-cum he didn't cum at all. Now when i think of that i feel really dirty i don't want anyone to touch me..i only remember the pain i felt. So now i'm 8 days late. I know that you cannot get pregnant because of a blow job but i'm getting worried. Can be this delay due to the stress when he fingered me?

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subscribed mark over a year ago

Most importantly, don't feel dirty and don't let the experience ruin your future pleasures. It was not you who did things wrong. I'm very happy you said "ex" because he should be out of your life. He didn't love you he only wanted sex.

Beginning sexual encounters are not always as much fun as you expect. We don't begin life knowing how everything works or how to do everything. Also your late period can certainly be due to the sexual encounter. Periods can be all over the place when you start having sexual encounters. Not just intercourse but any kind which includes fingering or just getting all worked up like making out.

I'm sorry you had such a painful experience because sex is meant to be a wonderful way for two people to enjoy being together and it is when you find the right partner. But it requires trust and love for each other not just wham, bam, oh that felt good.

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Guest over a year ago

Thank you for your support :)

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Orion355648 over a year ago

So on 2nd Feb, my bf fingered me. He did not have any cum or pre cum and he is totally sure about it. My periods were to come around 5th Feb but were late. So i went on with a pregnancy kit test and it showed negative ( i wish i had done this in the morning, but unfortunately did in the afternoon). It showed me negative. Still i was very very stressed. Then on 15th feb i had bleeding which was very light. I thought that it would be spotting but the bext day it was like normal periods with heavy bleeding as i normally have (except the first day did show light bleeding than usual). It lasted for 6 days which is normal for me. But i have back ache and sometimes feel nausea. Breasts don't hurt really on touching or anything but feel a bit pain out of nowhere anytime (especially around nipple) and when i press them or touch them there is no pain. I have lower back pain now and i am very stressed. Can in any way i be pregnant? Kindly reply to this :)

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subscribed mark over a year ago

If the test says NO you are not likely to be pregnant. You didn't do anything that would cause it. I don't know how old you are but many young people have periods that are all over the place and can be affected by any sort of sexual encounter, it does not have to be intercourse.

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Orion355648 over a year ago

Thankyou for the reply firstly! Means a lot. What should i do? Go for a test again or leave it ?

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Orion355648 over a year ago

And i am 18 btw.

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Orion355648 over a year ago

And this is paranoid but i feel my stomach bigger. It should not be showing this soon, right? Maybe because i have recently restricted activities. Mostly i am at home due to exams. Should i totally believe this that i am not pregnant. And i did the pregnancy test on 13th feb. Was it too early to test?

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