Hello, I was wanting some opinions from some of you. I am 25 years old and I have a sister who is 2 years older than me and a brother that is 4 years younger than me so yes I am the middle child. It always seems that my sister is jealousy of me for some reason. If you knew me you would see that I am the type of guy that would give you the shirt off my back if you needed it I would do anything for anybody. I dont have a problem with anybody in my family but my sister. I would say it started about 2 years ago when I decided to get married to my wife. My sister was always trying to cause conflicts in the planning of my wedding. She even got pregnant so that her baby would be born on the same day I was to get married but she had a miss cariage. It is like anytime in my life I have a moment to shine she wants to knock the wind out of my sails. About 5 months ago she decided to leave her husband so she moved out hated her husband found out she was pregnant and moved right back in like nothing ever happened. Now for the latest, she has found one of my ex-girlfriends that I use to date for like 2 years and it ended real bad with me and her but now my sister has looked her up on myspace and she thinks she needs to be friends with her so she talks to her and rubs it in my face that she is doing so. This is just totaly dissrespectful. I could do the same thing to her but she is my sister and I have enough respect to not treat her this way. I just want some opinions do you think she has a mental problem or do I have a problem. My honest opinion is that I think she is jealousy of my wife and I. Seeing how my sister has always been the only girl I think she thinks my wife is stealing some of her attention. Please let me know what you think.
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It's obvious that your sister loves to be in the spot light. I don't think she has a mental problem, she is just plain jealous, period. When she sees something nice going on for you, she seizes an opportunity to steal your thunder, that's not cool. She is insecure and childish, and is obviously uncomfortable in her own skin.
Bringing an "x" into the program is out of line, for sure. Sometimes, whether we want to or not, we sort of have to walk away from the problem, which is your sister. This makes it uncomfortable around the holidays, which are fast approaching, but she needs to understand and wake up to the fact that it's not always about her.
She sounds a bit narcissistic (maybe i didn't spell that right) but you get my drift. She has to have it her way, all the time, and she thinks the sun should rise and fall at her command.
You really do sound like a real nice guy, but always remember, nice guys finish last. Sometimes even "nice" guys have to be a bit "bitchy". Set her straight by telling her that you love her and care about her, but she needs to "butt" out of your life. You obviously can't be as mean as she is, as it sounds like you don't have it in you to be that way. But you need to put it to her. Her manipulation and control is getting out of hand, especially now that she has brought your ex girl into the mix, that is cruel and mean spirited.
It may just have to come down to the bottom line where you just will not speak with her for a while. If she asks you why, be straight up with her and tell her what is bothering you for all this time. Don't sit on it because it will just get worse for you. If she chooses to get angry with you because you spoke your peace, so be it, she will come around, eventually.
Bringing an "x" into the program is out of line, for sure. Sometimes, whether we want to or not, we sort of have to walk away from the problem, which is your sister. This makes it uncomfortable around the holidays, which are fast approaching, but she needs to understand and wake up to the fact that it's not always about her.
She sounds a bit narcissistic (maybe i didn't spell that right) but you get my drift. She has to have it her way, all the time, and she thinks the sun should rise and fall at her command.
You really do sound like a real nice guy, but always remember, nice guys finish last. Sometimes even "nice" guys have to be a bit "bitchy". Set her straight by telling her that you love her and care about her, but she needs to "butt" out of your life. You obviously can't be as mean as she is, as it sounds like you don't have it in you to be that way. But you need to put it to her. Her manipulation and control is getting out of hand, especially now that she has brought your ex girl into the mix, that is cruel and mean spirited.
It may just have to come down to the bottom line where you just will not speak with her for a while. If she asks you why, be straight up with her and tell her what is bothering you for all this time. Don't sit on it because it will just get worse for you. If she chooses to get angry with you because you spoke your peace, so be it, she will come around, eventually.
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your sister needs to know that your life is not hers adn she doesnt factor in like that.YALL ARE GROWN NOW.
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