Is my wife having out of marriage relations?

its seems very likely that she could be. of course no one here can really tell you if she is but from what you are saying thats what it sounds like or she could just be unhappy with the marriage. I have two friends who recently got married and the guy is in service and his wife is a friend of mine and she does that same thing you say your wife is doing. shes distant doesnt talk to him much and is uncaring towards him and yes she id sleeping with other people. so thats what makes me believe your wife may be doing the same. but there is also a chance that she isnt cheating and is just unhappy. go to her and ask her how she feels about your marriage and if shes unhappy with anything and just go from there.

So what did he do? Wright go in through a troubling time. I asked her was she doing something. She said no, but then she really wasn't going to tell.



How can I move on? my daughter is 12 she thinks we just have a disfunctional familly. I am stuck.

eIBO610 wrote:

southernlady wrote:

its seems very likely that she could be. of course no one here can really tell you if she is but from what you are saying thats what it sounds like or she could just be unhappy with the marriage. I have two friends who recently got married and the guy is in service and his wife is a friend of mine and she does that same thing you say your wife is doing. shes distant doesnt talk to him much and is uncaring towards him and yes she id sleeping with other people. so thats what makes me believe your wife may be doing the same. but there is also a chance that she isnt cheating and is just unhappy. go to her and ask her how she feels about your marriage and if shes unhappy with anything and just go from there.

So what did he do? Wright go in through a troubling time. I asked her was she doing something. She said no, but then she really wasn't going to tell.

How can I move on? my daughter is 12 she thinks we just have a disfunctional familly. I am stuck.

Oh by the way I did ask her wasw she unhapy and she just bring up all the negative.
She did not want to spend any familly time with us. She says it must be the birth control pills but does that explain (excuse my expression ) I don't know what kind of person ou arebut, but it looks like she has a lot of rubbing action from her p***y to her ass. dark like hickies.

i dont know what that could be from he vagina to her ass but im sure its not a side affect of birth control. i have never heard of that being a side affect from any kind of birth control i have been on or any other kind of birth control at all for that matter. all i can really say though is to keep talking to her and figure out whats going on in her head and work to fix. maybe try doing family therapy.

Hey thanks for the information, and sorry for type O's. I am a little distressed.

May be I did not make myself clear. The darkness  or extra wear I noticed. I did not ask her about it.

What I am asking about the birth control pill is this: Could it make her not won’t sex at all?

i have never heard of birth control doing that ether. but it can cause ehaustion which could cause someone to not want sex. but the side effects vary from each kind of birth control

I attempted to walk out today, I can not afford it. She is clearly unhappy. She put herself in this situation, I mean she has not work out side of the house for more that 12 years. She says it is soo hard cleaning up after me and my daughter that she feels like a maid. I agree i can be alittle messy but no where near other guys. She has four cats cleans up after constantly. the most I do is come in with myshoes on or leave few of my things around. (out of place in hte mind) but her stuf is everywere! It seems she wants to have me live out of a couner.

She says she looks good for herself not for me. What is that, I thought wives wanted to look good for their husbands and visversa.

I tryed to talk to her but she is all over the place. Not one thing. I does not love me, I really don't know if she ever did, maybe I was just herr meal ticket.

 

like i said earlier maybe yall should try family therapy. may help