Hi All
Me and my current girlfriend havent been able to have sex. As soon as we try intercourse my penis goes flacid and it never works out, but up until then we are fine. so anytime she wants sex now i always keep putting it off. I have no idea what to do?
Me and my current girlfriend havent been able to have sex. As soon as we try intercourse my penis goes flacid and it never works out, but up until then we are fine. so anytime she wants sex now i always keep putting it off. I have no idea what to do?
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You do not mention your age. But though it can make a small amount of difference, I can tell you that it happens from time to time to just about everyone.
First of all, try to relax, the more you stress over it, the worse it can get.
Are you comfortable with your partner?
Are you able to speak candidly and honestly about this without fear of rejection or ridicule?
I understand how it can be difficult for some, but having a heart to heart conversation about your feelings can really help bring you closer and bring a new understanding into the relationship.
Also, some extra foreplay can help sometimes, and also exploring what makes you turned on and what makes you physically desire sexual intercourse with your partner. Maybe you would like her to try something that you fear would be a turn off.
BUT also, if this is your first time AND her first time, you just may not be ready yet and therefor it should not be pushed too much. Try to relax and when your body is ready and comfortable it will let you know. It can be a stressful and scary situation your first time, either as a virgin or the first time with this partner.
Experiment with her to see what makes you hard and keeps you hard and relax, feel comfortable and when the time is right it will all work out just fine.
First of all, try to relax, the more you stress over it, the worse it can get.
Are you comfortable with your partner?
Are you able to speak candidly and honestly about this without fear of rejection or ridicule?
I understand how it can be difficult for some, but having a heart to heart conversation about your feelings can really help bring you closer and bring a new understanding into the relationship.
Also, some extra foreplay can help sometimes, and also exploring what makes you turned on and what makes you physically desire sexual intercourse with your partner. Maybe you would like her to try something that you fear would be a turn off.
BUT also, if this is your first time AND her first time, you just may not be ready yet and therefor it should not be pushed too much. Try to relax and when your body is ready and comfortable it will let you know. It can be a stressful and scary situation your first time, either as a virgin or the first time with this partner.
Experiment with her to see what makes you hard and keeps you hard and relax, feel comfortable and when the time is right it will all work out just fine.
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