Me and my girlfriend have been together for more than a year now and because of some personal reasons we didn't have intercourse until 3 weeks ago. Before I used to make her have an orgasm having oral sex and also using my hand by stimulating her clitoris. when first we started having intercourse it was paiful for her and we thought its normal because it was the first time. Now after 3 weeks it hurts slightly but more important is that she does not feel that much of pleasure. I have made her climax when we had intercourse but that was because I was using my hand to stimulate her clitoris and she told me if I dont use my hand she would'nt be having pleasure with intercourse. we have tried all the common positions and they all are the same there's no pleasure for her. she tells me it feels kinda good(not the kind she would get an orgasm with) at the begining but then it gets uncomfortable as it goes on. It gets really uncomfortable for her when I make my movement fast. My penis is 5 inches and 1.7 inches thick so the problem is not for me being too big. I really feel bad for not being able to make her enjoy the intercourse. If you could give me some hints I would really appritiate it.
Thanks Allot
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Me and my girlfriend have been together for more than a year now and because of some personal reasons we didn't have intercourse until 3 weeks ago. Before I used to make her have an orgasm having oral sex and also using my hand by stimulating her clitoris. when first we started having intercourse it was paiful for her and we thought its normal because it was the first time. Now after 3 weeks it hurts slightly but more important is that she does not feel that much of pleasure. I have made her climax when we had intercourse but that was because I was using my hand to stimulate her clitoris and she told me if I dont use my hand she would'nt be having pleasure with intercourse. we have tried all the common positions and they all are the same there's no pleasure for her. she tells me it feels kinda good(not the kind she would get an orgasm with) at the begining but then it gets uncomfortable as it goes on. It gets really uncomfortable for her when I make my movement fast. My penis is 5 inches and 1.7 inches thick so the problem is not for me being too big. I really feel bad for not being able to make her enjoy the intercourse. If you could give me some hints I would really appritiate it.
Thanks Allot
she may just need some more time and for you to maybe go slower or get her really warmed up befor hand. Also, I have a hard time getting off with just sex too, so recently I asked my husband if I could bring a toy into it and it really helps alot. Another thing is maybe she's just nervous too because the first time wasn't comfortable for her and she can't relax enough, if your old enough try a glass or two of wine, otherwise, get really really warmed up
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