Hey, I'm fifteen and have an oversized labia. I have always had it (although Ive only realised somethings wrong when I saw embarrasing bodies on channel 4). Because of it sex is always incredibly painful for me and is only just bareable. It also greatly affects my confidence, I feel as if I am deformed and.. well.. disgusting. I live in Birmingham, can I get the surgery for free on the NHS? Cause I kinda need it.. :(
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When you read this post, there are a bunch of links to similar questions at the bottom. You may find some answers there. I live in tthe US so I can't help you with the NHS stuff.
But about the painful sex. Have you tried lubing up real well? I don't see why it should be terribly painful if things are slippery enough. I knew a girl who had long lips and she loved to have me play with them when they were wet and slippery and she liked it when I sucked on them and rolled them between my lips. I could even nibble on them gently. They never were a problem during sex and hers hung out nearly 2 inches beyond her outer lips.
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hmm.. well.. I have only had sex like, four times, so maybe that has something to do with it.
Maybe I'm just tight, i dont know, I'll try lubing up next time though.
It's like a stinging kind of pain, I try not to wince though (lol).
Anywho, yeah, I'll try that.
I don't really engage in any other sexual stuff with my boyfriend other than sex, and me pleasuring him. We've been together for seven months and I'm his first serious girlfriend, I guess he's not comfortable with my velvet underground yet :/ (trolol)
anyway, thanks a bunch, really apreciate it mate :)
Maybe I'm just tight, i dont know, I'll try lubing up next time though.
It's like a stinging kind of pain, I try not to wince though (lol).
Anywho, yeah, I'll try that.
I don't really engage in any other sexual stuff with my boyfriend other than sex, and me pleasuring him. We've been together for seven months and I'm his first serious girlfriend, I guess he's not comfortable with my velvet underground yet :/ (trolol)
anyway, thanks a bunch, really apreciate it mate :)
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Hello Dear,
I am 33 now and when I was 14/15 my labia grew to about 2 CM long during puberty and because I am very thin they stood out a lot. They were irritating and when I gave birth to my daughter one side tore terrible, probably because they were in the way. :-<
I just had labiaplasty 2 weeks ago and let me tell you it is terribly painful and the recovery takes many weeks. If you can live with yourself I would not recommend doing the surgery. It really depends on how bad the problem is to you and what you are willing to endure to correct it.
Do you mind sharing how big they are? You have to measure from the base to the longest tip with naturally stretching them how far they will go without hard pulling.
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