is there something wrong with me? im 18, and i have no problem getting an erection. when me and my girlfriend start tomess around, i get immediately aroused and am ready for sex right away. my gf though loves foreplay, which she basically just wants me to make out with her for 20 minutes. during that, i lose my erection. its very embarrassing, and frustrating. sometimes when i recieve oral sex during foreplay, when she stops some semen comes out. not a ton, not having an rgasm, or even fully ejaculating, but it makes me feel much less excited. alcohol is theonly thing that helps me.